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Survivor families gathered on the patio at Break- water Beach Waterpark to hear dignitaries from NJ law enforcement and state and local government leaders express the importance of the event. Garden State Concerns of Police Survivors John Ci- uppa presented a plaque to the Storino family, the owners of Breakwater Beach Waterpark, as a thank you for hosting Survivors Day for 11 years. PERMISSION CONTINUED FROM PAGE 47 of the water park that day may have trav- eled from across the state, but there was no mistaking that they were family, fortu- nately brought together under the most unfortunate circumstances. This family reunion was different than any memorial service or visit to the wall in Washington D.C. The 11th Annual Law Enforcement Survivors Day at Seaside Heights was once again a joyous occasion spent with those who have been togeth- er through the hard times and deserve to celebrate some great ones. “Sometimes, we have to give ourselves permission to have a good time,” noted State Police Colonel Patrick Callahan, who hosted the ceremony that began Sur- vivors Day. “We get together for somber events, as we will never forget the ones who gave their lives in the line of duty. But on a day like today, we come away to the Jersey Shore (to make) special memories that will last a lifetime.” Behind Callahan stood a line of dig- nitaries from law enforcement and state and local government who were present to support Callahan’s statement that this event is unlike the others. “This is a day where you can smile,” voiced Ocean County Prosecutor Joseph Coronato. “But we can also appreciate the fact that someone in our family or some- one that we had a relationship with paid the ultimate sacrifice.” A day to smile. A place to relax, splash, laugh and play. This vital family occasion has become tradition due to the sponsor- 48 NEW JERSEY COPS ■ AUGUST 2018 ship of the NJ State Police Survivors of the Triangle and Garden State Concerns of Police Survivors (C.O.P.S.) and the sup- port of the Storino family, the owners of Breakwater Beach, who wanted to give back to New Jersey’s law enforcement survivors by providing a cost-free and fun-filled day at their water park. As the cabanas and locker rooms be- gan to fill with other guests, the eyes of the survivors wandered to the nearby at- tractions. Which slide would they rush to first? Or would they begin the day with a float down the lazy river? Before the full day of sun and splash began, though, a special guest took the opportunity to share a few words to the nearly 70 families who gathered. Many of the families who have attended Survivors Day for years had never seen a New Jersey governor make a visit. But Governor Phil Murphy wouldn’t miss the chance with be with the survivors, even if he wasn’t able to ride down the slides himself. “Today I’m reminded of that first ‘Sat- urday Night Live’ episode after 9/11, when Lorne Michaels started the show standing on stage with (former) New York Mayor Randolph Giuliani and asked, ‘Mr. Mayor, do we have permission to laugh?’” Murphy shared. “Today is one of those days where we at one level have a heavy heart, but on another level, we are out here in this beautiful weather and we have the opportunity to let our hair down. I wish you an extraordinary day.” A few short months ago, Adria Mc- Meekin was at the National Law Enforce- ment Officers Memorial upholding a tradition that she began after her father was killed in line of duty on March 4, 2005. Many Atlantic City Local 24 officers who rode the Police Unity Tour to hon- or Thomas McMeekin experienced the emotion that emanated when Adria post- ed a handwritten note to her father on the wall where his name is inscribed. Local 24 members have also gotten to know the McMeekin family through their atten- dance at the memorial ceremony hosted each year to honor officers like Thomas, who made the ultimate sacrifice while on the job in Atlantic City. But at Survivors Day, the McMeekin family arrived at Breakwater Beach wear- ing smiles and flip-flops. Adria greeted friends who have become like brothers and sisters to her through years of attend- ing C.O.P.S. events. She hugged Gracie and Julia Preslar, who also lost their fa- ther, Lakewood Local 71 member William “Niche” Preslar, at a very young age. “It shows Adria all of the love and care out there with all that law enforce- ment does for the families,” shared Trish Mooney, who was Thomas’ aunt and god- mother. “They’ll have a good time today. It’s a family day.” Survivors like Chatrain Shields viewed a day at the water park as a family excur- sion that she and her three kids would have taken with her husband, Kieran Shields, had he not made the ultimate sacrifice in 2006 while on the job with the Orange Police Department. After attend- ing Survivors Day for the past six years, her three kids insist that the outing in Seaside Heights cannot be missed.