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ATTENDANCE MATTERS CONTINUED FROM PAGE 27 not feeling the goosebumps and fighting back the tears that always come with attending Police Week – not to mention the feeling of honor and commitment that turns into such a feel- ing of grace – should get on a bike or find some other path and experience this beyond-bucket-list wonder of which Phillips says, “As soon as you have been there once, you want to come back again every year.” A great wake-up call And the quietness of everybody there to embrace the fallen.” Words cannot truly convey what it’s like to attend the events and tributes at Police Week, including the arrival of the Police Unity Tour, the Candlelight Vigil and the Memorial. But those who have been there many times dig deep to find the words that will motivate every law enforcement officer to attend. “Appreciation and camaraderie,” suggests Milltown Local 338 member Armando Rosario, who will be pedaling the Unity Tour for the third time this year, alongside two officers from Missouri whom he met on last year’s ride. “Amazing,” proffers Ewing Township Local 111 State Dele- gate Mike Pellegrino about attending 20 times in the 23 years he has been on the job. “Uplifting,” charges Harry Phillips, Executive Director of the Police Unity Tour. “Unity,” adds Montuore, who is also the Senior Director of the National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial. “Worldwide brotherhood,” submits Manchester Township Local 246 State Delegate Artie Cronk, who has worked the Vigil detail 11 of the past 12 years. “Enlightening, pride and some sorrow,” describes Reading- ton Township Local 317 member Pete Serrone, who has worked Police Week as a motorcycle officer the past five years. “It’s impossible not to hear the silence as you walk into the memorial,” concludes NJ State PBA President Pat Colligan. President Colligan has advocated at nearly every PBA meet- ing for the camaraderie, pride, unity and appreciation of at- tending National Police Week, scheduled this year for May 8-15 in Washington, D.C. If every law enforcement officer is 28 NEW JERSEY COPS ■ APRIL 2017 To get a sense of why so many law enforcement officers come to Police Week, stop by Kelly’s Irish Times on F Street just north of the Memorial. Pellegrino will be there with 90 other members from Mercer County and officers from around the world who are compelled to come to Washington, D.C. again and again by this response: Understanding. In a word, there is so much to understand about the profes- sion, the people who serve and what law enforcement officers provide every day by attending Police Week. “It’s about our profession and what we do every day,” Pel- legrino reasons. “I have been 20 times, at least, and each time I better understand why we do what we do.” The profession is filled with defining moments: The first time you pin on your badge; the first big case; the first time you get a PBA valor award. Colligan bases his advocacy for at- tending on one of those seminal moments. “I remember my first police funeral, and I remember the first time I walked into the memorial,” he confides. First and foremost, Police Week promotes two common goals. One is to remember those officers who gave everything. The second is to never forget the families of fallen officers who have continued to make the sacrifice every day since the fate- ful day. And if there is one mandatory duty for law enforcement officers, it is attend the Candlelight Vigil in Class A uniforms to escort survivors and let them know they will always be part of the worldwide brotherhood. Police Week also facilitates an understanding of the dichot- omy that underscores the profession. One moment at the Memorial or finishing the Unity Tour allows a chance to un- derstand how honorable the profession is and see cops proud to be cops. The same moment can be equally humbling, and feeling the combination can last a lifetime. “It’s a great wake-up call for a brand-new officer or some- body who has been on the job for 15 years,” declares Phillips, who served the West Orange PD and Local 25 for 20-plus years. “You realize you’re lucky. Every officer should get to feel that. You almost owe it to your career.”