Nisbah Magazine Nisbah, Winter 2013 | Page 80

The door to reality By Shazia Hussain Shazia Hussain did her bayah with Hazrat Shaykh Tauqeer in October 2010. A few weeks later her family was blessed with the opportunity to host Hazrat during his UK visits. From that moment, her whole focus in life changed and her journey on the path of seeking closeness to Allah Ta’ala began. She had found her spiritual parents. The UK visits have grown so much since then, but amidst all the hustle and bustle of talks and travel, one thing has become apparent to her. She says, “My house truly feels like home now, when my teachers visit and bring their warmth and radiance.” T he majlis (gathering) is over and we start to make our way out. A sister is searching for a ride home. I offer her a ride and we head towards her place. As I’m driving, she begins asking about what it means to take a Shaykh. She throws her questions at me, one after another. It’s clear she is new to all of this. ‘I don’t understand why people need to take a Shaykh. Why do they become so attached to him? They simply do whatever he asks them to? How will bayah get me close to Allah  when I’m only doing what the Shaykh is instructing me to do? If I really loved Allah  wouldn’t I do it for Him, without being asked to?’ How can I explain to her that she has misunderstood? She seems so confused. There must be a way I can convince her of the importance of bayah?