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What is Culture? By Linda Lin ly menu’s short-form writing on the white board of a local cha chaan teng (茶餐廳), you know you should shout your stop loudly on the mini bus, you type half in Chinese and half in English with your friends and they reply in the same way. You get used to what you do, and people around you do the same things. Sometimes you do not even realize that certain things contribute to “cul- ture”, but you are already a part of it. Culture is food, culture is music, culture is lan- guage, culture is value. It seems like culture can include everything. Culture can be small–your little family can have its own culture, the group you are working with can have a certain culture, the school you are attending can have its culture. Of course, it can also be big–a country has its own culture, a region has its own culture, so we often hear Chinese culture, Asian culture, West- ern culture and so on. Culture builds walls. You stand out when you are surrounded by a foreign culture. When you look totally different, speak a different language, and behave differently than others, you prob- ably start to feel uncomfortable in a culture to which you do not belong. It might be hard for you to fit in. In Chinese culture, we tend to be humble, and we do not want to trouble people. Chinese reject people’s help at first, even if we re- ally need it, and we expect others to keep asking until we accept their offer. However, if we do the same thing in some western cultures, we would probably never get the help we need. Some may think that western people are not helpful, but in reality, they just do not understand our culture and interpret our words literally. All these sim- Culture melts insecurity. You feel safe when you ple little things can build walls between people, are in your culture, because you can take com- and sometimes can distance people. fort in the familiarity of everything around you. In Hong Kong, you can use Cantonese fluently Culture can be a brand. Culture is formed over to talk with people, you can understand the dai- a long period of time, and through cumulative Commonalities make culture, differences make culture. We all eat rice, we share hot meals, we all speak Chinese, and we all have black hair and tan skin. These are all factors that make us be- long to a same culture–Chinese culture. On the other hand, when you are abroad, other people eat pizza, hamburgers and spaghetti, they might speak English or French, and they do not have black hair and tan skin. Therefore, you call them foreigners, and you separate them from your Chinese culture, and group them into a cul- ture-called “Western culture”. Culture helps us to define ourselves in some way and to distin- guish ourselves from the others. 7 JANUARY 2018