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television, so maybe that did have something to do with it,” she laughs. It was turning 50 that hurt her. She began noticing changes to her looks, her kids were grown up and leaving the house, and she hit menopause. She began taking a good look at her career and wondered how much harder it would be for her now. And then strange things began happening. Guys stopped holding the door for her, innocent flirtations at the deli ceased, and a conversation with one comic was simply surreal. “I had one comic say to me, ‘Patty, remember when you used to be really hot?’ I’m like what?? He goes ‘Remember?’ So, I go uh… yeah. He says, ‘God, I used to have the worst crush on you back then.’ “Every word coming out of his mouth was in past tense,” she recalled. “I think it was the first time I realized I don’t look the way I did before. And losing your looks is a big thing for people who con- Film Reviews Giveaways News & Features Movie Posters and much more! TheMovieWaffler.com Visit us online at http://www.NewJerseyStage.com pg 81