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say there’s no acting going on - you’re just being a person. That definitely helped the authenticity of the film and we’ve heard that from audience feedback. It’s easier to connect to a story when you believe the people and can connect to them on a human level. When you’re pushing the envelope too much you’re not going to connect. I think our cast is terrific and it’s a testament to our director Jared as well. He had a real facile, nice touch with the actors. I know you’ve worked in tv and films; what was it like to be part of the entire process from raising the funds to winning an award at a film festival? I realize as we were doing this that I now know what it’s like to be a small business owner. I had a friend of mine in college who started working for his family’s tree business. The guy is working 6 days a week for almost 30 years and I never understood why. “Why can’t you not work on Saturday? Why can’t you just hang out?” But after doing this film, I realized when you build something from the ground up it’s your baby. All of us are very close to it and you can’t not think about it. Everything is always on your mind. You’re involved in every single detail. It’s incredibly gratifying and other than having children it was the greatest experience of my life. But it was super hard too. We made this on a shoestring. We were constantly begging, borrowing, stealing money. A lot of my high school buddies pitched in and helped get a lot of the initial money off of the ground. A lot of my relatives in Jersey did too and we had a big crowdfunding campaign. I tell people making movies is harder than raising kids because the unknowns are just constant and problems pop up that you NJ STAGE - ISSUE 71 INDEX NEXT ARTICLE 18