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by their association with Joe. I am still having trouble grasp- ing that he is no longer with us, but what I will miss the most is the unconditional love I felt from him and the sense of belonging I al- ways felt in his presence. Joe was an important part of my life even before I knew who he was. For many years, I have worked with an amazing multi- talented, singer songwriter, and artist by the name of Peter Him- melman. The last time Peter Him- melman played The Saint, he was accompanied by an Israeli rock band called The Flying Baby. Peter is known for his extemporaneous, one of a kind, live performances, and this Saint show was off the hook! Joe was the sound guy that night, and every step of the way, went toe to toe with Peter. Joe was so moved by that experience, that he wrote a wonderful article about it that eventually found its way to me through another friend. As soon as I read Joe’s words, I knew he totally “got” the genius of Peter Himmelman, and from that moment I just knew that I had to meet Joe. A few weeks later, I saw he was on the schedule for a late night set at Twisted Tree Café. I did not know much about Asbury at that time, but made my way to the show in the middle of the night. I videotaped some of my favorite footage of Joe that night (which is shown on the previous page). We were immediate friends and were blessed with more than 10 years of friendship.” — Ellen Berman Joe Incagnoli - aka Joe Harvard January 4, 1959 - March 24, 2019 NJ STAGE - ISSUE 58 INDEX NEXT ARTICLE 111