New Consciousness Review Summer 2015 | Page 36

RAISING CONSCIOUS KIDS Instead of telling children that it isn’t nice to lie and forbidding it as a rule for them to follow, I show them what a lie looks and feels like. The responses are fantastic. When one little four year old boy held the lie ball after denying he had eaten some chocolate pudding (and it was all over his face), he immediately shared, “Oh, I feel that in my stomach when I lie. Like the other day when my Mom cooked something and asked me if I liked it when she gave me a bite. It was in my mouth and I said, “yes” that I did like it. But I went to the bathroom and spit it in the toilet.” He then proceeded to share several other lies he had told. It was an inspirational experience, learning about lying. He learned for himsel f, knew where he felt it in his body and what it was doing to himself. Yes, reinforcement is essential with lessons for children, but he got the foundation of what lying is really about immediately. Accelerated absorption through 3D learning can’t be beat! Keeping a lie ball around as a visual reminder is a great idea, too. For a fun story vignette, go to my website link where you can find a 3 minute story with me in costume for children to watch entitled, “The Lying Pirate.” http://grandmaboom.com/the-lying-pirate/ With preschool children I dress up in costume, become a story such as the lying pirate, and have them all hold a lie ball to figure out where they feel the lie inside. Instructions on making a Lie Ball: Wad up aluminum foil (can be recycled as long as it does not smell and is not gooey). Make it approximately the size of a baseball. Get round toothpicks, break them in half. Stick the sharp end into the lie ball far enough that it will stay. Do this all around the aluminum ball so that it looks like a sputnik, similar to the photo provided. 3D learning can be used with just about anything. Find things in the environment and make analogies that can take children into their own inner world. Make that bridge and help them use all their senses. Help them to empower themselves. All kids want to FEEL like a Superkid. Giving them tools with 3D learning to know themselves with greater awareness gives them more options in making choices that build confidence instead of promoting self-destruction. 3D learning is an accelerated way to teach and learn. And it’s fun to be creative while creating more opportunities for savvy Superkids to inhabit our precious planet! The Superkid Power Guidebook is filled to the brim with activities on 52 subjects to use with children in teaching inner awareness and self-help skills in FUN ways to empower them in grounded ways for building their confidence and living more consciously. This book is 40 years in the making and tested with many children. A true gift to children, it also enhances relationships of those who use these techniques with the children being shared with. Win-Win! Link: http://grandmaboom.com/books/superkid-power-guidebook/ 36 | NEW CONSCIOUSNESS REVIEW