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financial struggles and so many other dysfunctional or self-limiting behaviors. We act out of our need
for approval from others.
As soon I identified the origin of this condition, I focused my energy and resources towards finding a
solution. The challenge was to identify a methodology that provides the mind with the same self-reliant models that we were supposed to receive
from our parents. Through 10 years of research
and clinical testing with more than 2,000 clients,
I established a protocol offered in a state of deep
meditation that guides the mind to self-reliance
and the removal of the obsolete behaviors built to
cope with emotional dependency.
The Bosurgi Method™ is based on the theory that
the mind always strives for perfection, implementing and choosing behaviors that grant the best
possible responses to one’s daily events. Optimal
responses are selected by the mind in order to
maximize safety and efficiency--whatever the occurrence.
Of course, the tools available and the perception of
the event’s influence or limit our behavioral choice.
Meaning that if we are driven by emotional needs,
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we will implement entirely different life choices
from the ones we would do if we were self-reliant. Imagine the different set of behaviors that we
would use if we try to be beautiful, smart, rich, cool
or confident--in order to gain love and approval,
or if instead, we just are, without worrying about
judgment or rejection.
However self-reliant models, if already in place,
are more efficient and safer; therefore the mind
will prioritize them over less-functional emotionally dependent sets of behavior. The Bosurgi Method™ helps the mind to identify those powerful
self-reliant models; the same ones we should have
received from our parents.
As soon as this new clarity is implemented, the
mind is free to archive the now-obsolete behaviors. This is the process that searches out obsolete
behavioral responses, actions, thoughts, feelings
or experiences that trigger the old emotionally-dependent models. As soon as these are retrieved,
the mind makes the required behavioral updates,
so that in future events, these responses are in tune
with the new self-reliant model that you have now
set as the priority. This process is subliminal and
effortless, not requiring someone to consciously