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 Commandments will set us free. “You are my friends, if you do whatever I command you.” So if we keep the covenant on our tablet we can be assured we will be the type of friend to others that we hope they will be to us – supportive of the good qualities and not condoning or being accepting of the evil ones. This is the type of friend who will allow the evils and fruitless branches or behaviors to be pruned away so that the good qualities can become more fruitful and prolific. (cf. John 15:2) Perhaps the Lord best sums up all these teachings on forming genuine friendships with one last bit of advice contained in the Golden Rule: “Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” (Matthew 7:12) Amen. The Rev. Bradley D. Heinrichs is pastor of the Carmel New Church in Kitchener, Ontario, Canada, principal of the Carmel New Church School, Executive Vice President of the General Church in Canada, and Chairman of Swedenborg Incorporated. He lives with his wife, Catherine (Stewart), and family in Kitchener. Contact: [email protected] O U R N E W C H U RC H V O C A B U L A R Y Part of a continuing series developed by the Rev. W. Cairns Henderson, 1961-1966. HEAVENLY MARRIAGE This term, which is also peculiar to the Writings, is interiorly descriptive of a reciprocal conjunction of good and truth, or of the will and the understanding, which has its origin in the union or marriage of love and wisdom in the Lord. The heavenly marriage is effected in those only who have been regenerated, and it takes place in the rational of the intellectual proprium. Essentially it is a union in which love or good from the Lord received in the new will inspires life into truths in the understanding and directs them to uses, and in which those truths in their turn give form and quality to that love. The details are complicated, but the basic idea is that good from the Lord received from within by the internal way is brought into conjunction with truth received from without, from the Word, by the external way, that is, through the senses. We note that this union, which descends into ultimates in the mind, is preceded by a union entirely internal which initiates conjunction, and to which betrothal corresponds. (See Arcana Coelestia 3952, 2803.) 437