New Church Life September/October 2016 | Page 101

  vote with the angels The American presidential campaign – which has worldwide attention – is even nastier and more disgusting than usual. The dominant tone – from mainstream media to our own personal social media exchanges – is often visceral, cynical, judgmental, uncharitable. No matter how disappointed we may be with candidates or political realities, we can do better than this. We all have a role in establishing that tone – by what we say, what we pass on to others, what we tolerate. It is often said that we get the government we deserve – because of our low standards, prejudices and not being fully informed. Let us be worthy of better. The ideal template – for our political discourse, as well as our overall communication – is this year’s General Church Journey Campaign: Mindful Communication. Its thrust is always to be asking ourselves before speaking: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it useful? In his first inaugural address in 1861, with the United States on the cusp of civil war, Abraham Lincoln set the standard: "We are not enemies, but friends. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. The mystic chords of memory, stretching from every battlefield and patriot grave to every living heart and hearth-stone all over this broad land, will yet swell the chorus of the Union when again touched, as surely they will be, by the better angels of our nature." We could use that mantra: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it useful? We could use those better angels in the voting booth. (BMH) academy remains My Class of 1956 is holding its 60th reunion this Charter Day. We will come together – from as far away as Australia – sharing bonds and memories still fresh and warm in our hearts and minds. The Academy of the New Church is unique in this way. Other schools and colleges hold reunions that revive memories and friendships, but the lifetime relationships formed at the Academy are special. My wife used to lead French exchanges at the Academy and the teacher she worked with in France marveled at the way our students kept coming back and felt bonded not only by friendship but the shared faith and values that are so much a part of the Academy experience. He said – with a hint of sadness – that once his students graduate he probably will never see them again and they will not come back to visit their school. This is true of many schools that do not have t he spiritual core that still connects so many of us. 507