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new church life: september/october 2014 struggle to identify themselves with a church that does not ordain women. One reminded us that we accommodate in many ways all the time. Another reminded us of the hurt many women would feel if we did ordain women, and that accommodating at the loss of our integrity would not guarantee a gain in membership. Yet another said that the reason homosexual marriage might be the next issue is because it is the same issue in many people’s minds: freedom. Another paraphrased Mr. Roth as looking for a way for local congregations to make accommodations where the church as a whole cannot. The remaining hour was opened to general discussion of any of the papers. Twenty-two people spoke. Several spoke to the need for the church to increase its respect for the voices of women in the everyday life of the church, regardless of structural changes like ordaining women. Some suggested adjoining uses or “ministries” other than priestly ones from the caring and helping professions. Others drew attention to the need to affirm a place for men in today’s churches which are increasingly populated by women. Others addressed the specter of the church being split over this issue, some expressing hope that this not happen, while others focusing on the need for boundaries and mutual respect. Joint meeting with General Church Board: After lunch to which General Church Board members were invited, we spent the afternoon in a joint session between the clergy and the Board. The purpose was to provide an opportunity for interaction, and to consider the uses of the Church together as a precursor to a General Church strategic planning cycle. Bishop Keith kicked off this joint session with a presentation on the state of the Church, its challenges and its opportunities. He reminded us of current and past mission statements. He showed how the central budget is used to support our mission. After several years of cuts, he said, we are really down to the bare bones of essential uses. He also suggested we may wish to discuss when uses ought to be administered locally as opposed to centrally. Speaking to challenges, he noted that: • Singles often have a hard time fitting into the life of the Church • People who get into disorder tend to withdraw completely • Financial contributions are not really seen as necessary or as a duty • Many feel at a loss describing the Church to others • The culture around us supports things antithetical to our principles, and we do not embrace church attendance as we once did Turning to opportunities, Bishop Keith spoke of: • The vision of the Lord we have been given • The practical teachings about repentance, use and marriage we can share 418