New Church Life Nov/Dec 2014 | Page 20

new church life: november/december 2014 yet having both lay men and women conduct private or family worships, such as in classrooms or at home. We also will continue to welcome all lay men and women to search the Word, share their insights and participate in the uses of the Church. With that said, I have a sincere hope that we can enhance and find additional ways for laity – men and women – to respond to the Word. We strive for a church that encourages people to share their perceptions and be involved in church uses. I have been perplexed and saddened that the Theta Alpha Journal, a wonderful source of feminine perceptions and wisdom, seems to have fallen into disuse. The unique traits of the feminine mind bring a warmth and connectedness to church life that could not exist otherwise, in addition to their perceptions from their loves and the Word. How might we better recognize distinct masculine and feminine contributions and promote them? I am not certain what might come of an exploration along these lines, but I will be asking Consistory how we might constructively go about it. I am also encouraging our pastors to engage with the laity in their congregations in how to better integrate respect for, listening to and honoring of the masculine and the feminine in the life of their congregations. Concerns: I have many. One is that the topic of ordination has become polarized, and many people have their minds made up. Some do not agree with the doctrinal application of a male-only clergy and are unlikely to support the decision to continue this policy. Unfortunately, this is not the only area where there is disagreement. We face similar challenges when dealing with when to perform remarriages after divorce, sex prior to marriage, the elements of the Holy Supper, and several other areas. In these it appears that attempting to follow the Word produces a “tough” stance that hurts people and discourages some from participating in the Church. We do need to come from the Word, which is what makes us a church. But we also need to accommodate to people in their current states with their understandings and feelings. We need to reach out to everyone, and even if we do not agree or cannot do what they want, we need to be sensitive to them I have a sincere hope that we can enhance and find additional ways for laity – men and women – to respond to the Word. We strive for a church that encourages people to share their perceptions and to be involved in church uses. 510