New Church Life May/June 2017 | Page 52

Finding Hope: Talking About Addiction, Suicide, Domestic Violence and Mental Illness By Bronwen Mayer Henry In April, 2016, and April, 2017, the Bryn Athyn Church coordinated a powerful annual event, Finding Hope, addressing important topics we don’t usually talk about (addiction, suicide, domestic violence and mental illness). Here, Bronwen Mayer Henry, event coordinator, describes some of the inspiration behind this annual event, how it has been received and grown, plans for the future, and how other churches can get involved. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28) F inding Hope is an event born out of crisis. In the beginning of 2015 in the Bryn Athyn community there were a series of deaths from overdose, suicide and domestic violence. These events and these losses broke the hearts of many people connected to Bryn Athyn Church, and in many ways the community was shaken. In this vulnerable moment, a neighboring church and a behavioral health center reached out and offered to help our grieving church. (“Love is itself turned to mercy and becomes mercy when anyone who is in need of help is regarded from love or charity; hence mercy is the effect of love toward the needy and miserable.” Secrets of Heaven 3063) From this offer of support, individuals from both groups and from the Bryn Athyn Church came together and began meeting as a team to find ways to offer care and support to the community, and to start candid conversations about these important topics that are culturally often hidden in shadow. With time and prayer, a jointly coordinated event came about: Finding Hope. 232