New Church Life May/Jun 2014 | Page 46

n e w c h u r c h l i f e : m ay / j u n e 2 0 1 4 that we’re not, really take it away – quiet it down and move it to the periphery of our experience in an instant? Often it doesn’t, and we end up just kidding ourselves, and the feeling of anger continues to smolder – like fire in wood under ashes. Here’s another example: Think of young people who learn about chastity (or devotion to one partner) in relationships or marriage. They believe and love the mental pictures