New Church Life Mar/Apr 2015 | Page 106

new church life: march/april 2015 students in Bryn Athyn College who are new to the New Church and have their own faith and convictions. It does no good to hammer them with “the truth.” What works, he says – and is a model for all of us – is not to compromise our beliefs but to “hold our differences lightly” so that people can reason together and come to a sense of common ground and unity. Within the Church, which seems increasingly divided by differences on such issues as women in the ministry and gay marriage, that sense of reasoning together while “holding differences lightly” – in a spirit of charity – should be a model for our larger “classroom” as well. (BMH) what are our expectations? Jeremy noted that one of the challenges in devising strategies for the future of the Church is that we place few expectations on our members. Many churches have clear expectations, such as annual renewal of membership with specific pledges, including tithing. We rightly honor the principle of free will, which should be a call within each member to demonstrate commitment. A great many do. But part of our reality is that historically only about 20% of members financially support the uses of the General Church. That is free will but not what we should have a right to expect. In his 1995 best-seller, The Purpose-Driven Church, the Rev. Rick Warren said: “A healthy church cannot help but grow, and an unhealthy church will never grow.” We are challenged on many levels to manage the change and challenges confronting the Church, but this is not just the responsibility of the administration and the Board. It is for all of us. We all need to be involved in the life, growth and health of the Church – holding differences lightly, working together in charity, and doing our best to be led by the Lord. (BMH) free speech and its abuse Freedom without responsibility does not last. Preserving the right of free speech, for instance, requires that it be exercised responsibly; there is no right to yell “fire!” in a crowded theater. Free speech is a “right” because our Creator endows us with the gift of thinking freely, and the ability to put our thoughts into words. This is why freedom of speech is an “inalienable” right; it follows from something inherent in human nature itself. We have a right to use the gifts we have from the Divine, but that right is 216