New Church Life Mar/Apr 2014 | Page 105

  Allowing a Patient to Die – Yes or No? Helping a Patient Die – Death With Dignity What’s a ‘Good Death’? (With links to three interviews on National Public Radio) Of particular interest is Religion and the Doctor, where Jim talks about Swedenborg, Raymond Moody’s Life After Life, Helen Keller, and Dr. Eben Alexander’s Proof of Heaven. “My education along these lines,” he writes, “was when I attended Bryn Athyn College for two years. I was immersed in studies of Plato, Aristotle and others right up through the Age of Enlightenment, including Swedenborg. The emphasis was that there are two capabilities that make us uniquely human: freedom and rationality. We were charged to apply learning wisely to life – heady stuff for a 20-year-old. “So does any of this carry over to medical practice? Since we are all in some sense spiritual beings as well as natural beings, it seems logical for a physician to deal with the whole person, particularly around the time of crisis or death. I’m not one who thinks a chosen few have the ‘inside path’ or die easier than atheists. I had some confirmed non-believers in my care who died comfortably believing ‘that was that.’ They appeared to be good people who had led good lives. “But others want to talk, are afraid, or have regrets. All hospitals now have chaplains. Many ministers, rabbis, imams and priests make frequent hospital and nursing home visits. Doctors, of course, need to respect all beliefs and understand boundaries. Although I loved having philosophical and religious discussion with patients, I always tried to approach it from their interest and comfort zone.” Spiritual beliefs, he writes, can and should be “an important part of the conversation