Network Magazine Winter 2018 | Page 49

TROUBLESHOOTING TOUGH CLIENTS THAT AREN’T GETTING RESULTS A ‘tough’ client that makes no progress needn’t stay that way, writes coaching program developer Krista Scott-Dixon. Some specific techniques can transform the way you interact with them, as well as their success. e’ve all had them: the proverbial ‘tough clients’. They can be frustrating, annoying, and even anxiety-provoking. They can make you question your coaching skills. You might find yourself avoiding or dreading their calls, emails, and scheduled training sessions. Don’t despair. There is another way – a way that will not only get you feeling better as a coach, but will genuinely get results for those tricky clients. W What’s a tough client? At first, the answer to this question may seem obvious. A tough client, you might think, is someone that: • Should follow your advice – but doesn’t • Should do things that move them towards their goals – but doesn’t • Should get results – but doesn’t. Secretly, you might even ask yourself ‘What the #$^! is wrong with them?’ You might compare these clients to other ‘easy’ clients you’ve trained – clients that were motivated, diligent, consistent, and laser- focused on reaching their goals. You might secretly (or not so secretly) fantasise about ‘firing’ some of the toughest cases. Yet one thing you’ll notice looking at the short list above is that they’re a list of ‘shoulds’. In other words, they’re things that you want and expect to happen, but don’t. NETWORK WINTER 2018 | 49