Network Magazine Spring 2018 | Page 67

The 30-second article • Very few people exercise for the love of it: everyone has their own underlying motivation for participating in your class • By expanding on basic rapport- building, group fitness instructors increase the likelihood of unearthing participants’ true motivations for working out and connecting with them on a deeper level • Consciously working to establish points of mutual interest between yourself and a participant can expand upon basic rapport • By deepening the connection the participant feels with the instructor and the facility, we can also strengthen a participant’s adherence to exercise. or if your centre ever puts on ‘member breakfasts’, join in! When I did this with an early morning cycle class a couple of years ago, I found it to be one of the most valuable opportunities for getting to know my members, and it became a highlight of my week. There were times when I didn’t really say much, but that didn’t stop me from listening to ‘my people’. Those that had taken my class would give me their feedback straight away and, in turn, I could explain the reason for the way certain things were done, or discuss any changes I’d made to class. Another place ‘outside of the box’ that I will sometimes use for rapport building purposes is the pool after an aqua class. After noticing that a few participants would stay in the water after class had finished, I decided to bring some swim-wear and jump in after I’d packed up. I’ve found that it is in the aquatic environment that people are more likely to open up and discuss the ‘big things’ with me. Not being a psychologist, I can merely guess that this may be due to the combination of being wet and wearing only swimwear bringing peoples’ barriers down. The more we talk to participants, the more comfortable they will feel talking to us – about the small things at first, but Small talk can pave the way for ‘big talk’, so use it as an opportunity then, hopefully, the bigger things, like their real motivations for exercising. By verbalising this, they are acknowledging to both you and themselves the thing that is driving their behaviour, which can be a truly empowering experience. Proceeding with caution Building rapport so that people will open up to us does have the potential to put an instructor into some sticky situations. As mentioned in the first part of this article, there’s the possibility of our participants telling us about aspects of their lives that would require us to refer them to somebody more qualified, such as a dietitian in the case of disclosure of a potential eating disorder. There is also the potential for us to have to refer a matter to the police, in the case of, for example, domestic violence. Rapport building is an ongoing process. The more we can connect with participants, the higher the chance that we will retain them as members, and the greater the likelihood that they will have not only good, but great – referral worthy – experiences. Mel Morony is a group fitness instructor based in Eastern Melbourne. She is passionate about raising standards in the area of group fitness, for both participants and instructors. NETWORK SPRING 2018 | 67