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GX SKILLS EXTENDING RAPPORT TO UNEARTH PARTICIPANTS’ ‘WHY’ Opening up about their real motivations for exercising can strengthen participants’ commitment to working out, as well as to you and your facility, writes instructor Mel Morony. ome on, let’s work off all the cake and wine you had at the weekend’ the instructor says, ‘Time to take it up a couple of gears.’ One of the participants, Jana, does as she is told but also rolls her eyes. Her weekend didn’t involve cake or wine. Instead she went bike riding with a big group, tackling terrains, weather and even inclines that never feature in her indoor cycling class. The class she is participating in first thing Monday morning is her recovery. She’s never dared to tell the instructor this, however, so she just keeps powering on. 'C A sea of faces? As instructors, it is very easy for us to perceive our class as a sea of faces. Since these people have all come to our class we can fall into the trap of assuming that they are all there for the same reason. Yet as the story above – taken from a conversation I had years ago with a patron (name changed) – illustrates, the reasons participants attend classes are many and varied. In the first part of this article (Building rapport to keep ‘em coming back) we looked at rapport building from the perspective of how the bonds of community formed between the instructor and new patrons (and also between the patrons themselves) could impact a fitness facility’s member retention. In this article we’ll look at how we can build rapport with our long-term members, not just so that they will stay, but so that they can express their true reasons for exercising. As fitness professionals, it should be a no-brainer that very few people exercise for the love of it. Some do, but most don’t. However, despite how it may seem, neither are they motivated to participate in an exercise program because they want results such as weight loss, sports conditioning, stress relief or increased energy. As Sigmund Freud noted (and Aristotle hinted at a couple of millenia ago), ‘All human behaviour is motivated by one thing – to avoid/ move away from pain and move toward pleasure.’ Hence, there will be goals and motivations that underpin someone’s training for those NETWORK SPRING 2018 | 65