Network Magazine Autumn 2014 | Page 34

FILEX 2014 PRESENTER BIGGER IS BETTER: HERE’S WHY… Thinking small is a sure-fire way to limit your success. When you think big, you can change your life – and the world – writes Michael Port. H ands down, bigger is better. Not in the gas guzzling SUV sort of way, but when it comes to the thoughts and ideas that are travelling through your mind, yes, bigger is better. Bring big thoughts front and centre. It’s your mind that will change your life – and the world. When you think big, you’re large and in charge. In fact, did you realise that big thoughts: 1. Are an act of abundance To think big is an act of originality and creation – an act of abundance. When you think small, you resist your nature and create false scarcity. Big thoughts confirm the truth. You are more than enough. You will accomplish all you set out to. The world is yours for the taking – so go grab it! 2. Embrace a judge-less world 4. Expand and accept 6. Foster authenticity Big thoughts oppose the judging world. We’re not here to judge or be judged. Imagine if you never accepted the limited views of others? That’s right! Your individuality reigns supreme. Big thinkers embrace their own uniqueness and innate talents and refute limitations placed by others. Bigger invites challenges. It expands your personal capacity and confidence. On the flip side, small thoughts crave pre-ordained outcomes. Of course, thinking big can be scary and when we fear the unknown, we crave control. But we need to accept control for what it is – a farce. Be daring, and see where your big thoughts take you. Thinking big aligns the public and the private you. Your heart is free to speak the truth and authentic actions follow. Full self-expression is the height of ‘big bliss’ and the start of accomplishing all you desire. 3. Collaborate and foster equality Big thinking starts with: a) helping, and; b) allowing yourself to be helped. People who play small think they have to do it all themselves. The truth is, when you help another you break down false separations – the ‘us’ versus ‘them’ syndrome. We are all interconnected. True collaboration gives and accepts. It’s a beautiful explosion of equality, respect, love and creativity. Open yourself up to receiving as often as you give. 34 NETWORK AUTUMN 2014 / WWW.FITNESSNETWORK.COM.AU 5. Bring the joy of promises The act of making promises is liberating. It gives you all the permission you need to do big things and make creative adjustments along the way. Take some breathing room while you are fulfilling your individual commitments. Let go of rigid outcomes. If you think it has to be perfect, you may never attempt to realise your big burning desires. 7. Encourage congruency and integrity Big thinking and living with integrity go hand in hand. To live without integrity is to purposefully diminish your chances of success. In today’s world, telling the truth might just be a revolutionary act. It doesn’t get much bigger than that. 8. Bring grace and fluidity Thinking big is adaptive. It is not transactional. It allows us to connect to others, but not be attached. It allows our networks, friends, colleagues and even