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;' 8fgdf Jofks ? kdf O { R5f lj / lt ePsf ] anfTsf / af6 ue { jtL x ' g g ; Sg ] dfGotf ePsfn ] anfTs [ t dlxnfx ? nfO { k | fo cfˆg } anfTsf / sf ] nflu cfkm } nfO { lhDd ] jf / 7x / fO { G5 . bfkm {'/ df dlxnf / k '? ifx ? anfTsf / nfO { / f ] Sg / To ; af6 aRg ; lsG5 eGg ] ljZjf ; sf ; fy x ' s {] sf x ' G5g \ . a ] x ' nL s ' df / L x ' g ' kg {] ljzjf ; sf sf / 0f , clwsf + z 36gfdf anfTsf / af6 hlGdPsf ] aRrfsL cfdfnfO { ljjfxsf nflu cof ] Uo dflg5 . anfTs [ t dlxnf / pgLx ? sf ] afnaRrfx ? sf sf / 0f kl / jf / sf ] aO { Hht x ' g ] ePsfn ] b ' j } nfO { jlxZsf / ul / PSf ] kfO { G5 . oL afnaflnsfnfO { l : jsf / ug {] ; d ' bfodf klg olb pgLx ? df s ' g } jojxfl / s ; d : of b ] vf k /] sf ] v08df lt /: s [ t ul / G5 .
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of ] ; jfnsf nflu Pp6f dfq b [ li6sf ] 0f x ' g ; Sb } g lsgeg ] æjf / lrN8 «] g \ -o '¢ sf afnaflnsf _ Æ x ? pgLx ? sf ] kl / l : ytL / kfngkf ] if0f b ' j } b [ li6sf ] 0fsf cfwf / df ljljw ; d " xdf ljeflht x ' g ] u5 { g \ . ? h ] G8fn @)!! Sf cg '; f /, olx sf / 0fn ] ubf { xfdLn ] o ; ; jfnnfO { ;+ j ] bglzntfsf ; fy ; Daf ] wg ug {' kb { 5 . cfdd / aRrf b ' j } nfO { dgf ]; fdflhs ; xof ] usf ] cfjZostf / xG5 / kl / l : ytLsf ] ; dgf ug { sf nflu pgLx ? n ] Tof ] ; xof ] u k | fKt ug {' kb { 5 . Jojxfl / s ? kdf x ] bf { cfdf tyf aRrf b ' j } n ] kof { Kt ; xof ] u k | fKt u /] sf ] ;' lglZrt ug {' kb { 5 / cfdfx ? aRrfsf ] /] vb ] v ug { O { R5 ' s x ' G5g \ jf To ; sf nflu ; Ifd x ' G5g \ eGg ] df k " jfu | flx wf / 0ff / fVg ' x ' b } g -df ] Sdofg @))*_ .
anfTs [ t dlxnfaf6 hlGdPsf afnaflnsfM cfdf / aRrf larsf ] cGt { lqmofdfly x ' g ] kl / 0ffd
o '¢ / cf3ft hGo tgfjsf sf / 0f cleefjsn ] pgLx ? sf ] aRrfnfO { ;'/ lIft / fVg ] k | of ; efly ulDe / afwf k ' Ug ; S5 . s ] lx kl / 0ffdn ] b ] vfP cg '; f / dft [ cf3ftsf sf / 0f aRrfx ? sf ] h } ljs / zfl / l / s ljsf ; df -o ] x ' bf , An ]/, NoflalG : s / lao // @))&_ / cfdf aRrf larsf ] k | f / lDes ; DaGwdf -cNdlSji6 / a | f ] au [ @))#_ gsf / fTds k | efj kg { hfG5 . ljz ] iful / lx +; f / cf3ft hGo kl / l : ytLsf ] ; Gbe { df / lx / xbf , cleefjssf ] dfgl ; s : jf : Yo ; d : ofsf sf / 0f klg aRrfsf ] ; fdflhs ljsf ; df k | efj kb { 5 / pgLx ? df ; d ] t dfgl ; s : jf : Yo ; d : of b ] lvg ; Sg ] hf ] lvd / xG5 -o ' n @)))_ .
To : tf jftfj / 0fdf a ; f ] af ; ug {] kl / jf / sf nflu ; fldKotfsf ] l ; BfGt ( attachment theory ) klg ; fGb { les x ' G5 . o ; n ] aRrfx ? sf ] k | f / lDes b ' O { wf / sf ] ; DaGwdf pgLx ? n ] a ; f ] af ; sf nflu z / 0f lng ], qf ; / pQ ] hgfnfO { lgoGq0f ug ]{, efjgfTds cleJolQmnfO { a9fjf lbg ], / cfkm " tyf cGo JolQm dfly ljZjf ; hufpg ] h : tf df ] 8n k |: t ' t ub { 5 -a |] y ] 6 { g !((@_ . ;+ j ] bfglxn / cfkm ";+ u ePsf cleefjsx ?;+ u ;'/ lIft ; DaGw ePsf ] afnaflnsfx ? n ] efjgfTds cleJolQm / ;+ odtfsf lardf ; Gt ' ng sfod ug { ; Ifd x ' G5g \ . o ; sf ] ljkl / t cfkm } df ;'/ Iff vf ] Hg ] aRrfx ? Hf ] lvdaf6 aRg vf ] H5g \ / åljwfTds ljrf / ePsf aRrfx ? ;'/ lIft dx ;' z ug { cleefjs ;+ u 6fl :;/ xG5g \ .
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of trauma ) cyf { t Psaf6 csf {] k ': tfdf ; g {] cf3ft sf ] cjwf / 0ffsf ] ljsf ;, cfˆgf ] cleefjsn ] cg ' ej u /] sf ] cf3ft hGo 36gfsf ] k | ltlqmof : j ? k aRrfdf ljsf ; x ' g ] cf3ftsf nIf0fx ? sf ] j0f { g ug { ul / Psf ] xf ] -8flgonL !((*_ . To : tf afnaflnsfx ? cfkm } n ] cf3ft hGo 36gf cg ' ej gu /] sf x ' g ; S5g \ t / pgLx ? sf ] cleefjs ;+ usf ] cfk ; L ; DaGwsf dfWodaf6 cf3ftsf nIf0fx ? ;/] sf ] x ' g ; S5 . cfdfsf ] cf + vfdf ePsf qf ; sf sf / 0f aRrfx ? df cf3ft k ' Ug ; S5 / cf3ft k ' u ] sf cfdfx ? Tolt km ' lt { nf ] x ' b } gg \, efjgfTds cleJolQm x ' b } g / ; DaGwdf TotL ;+ nUg x ' b } gg \ . cleefjsx ? z ' Go jf cfTdbdg dx ;' z ul // x ] sf x ' g ; S5g \, ljutsf ; Demgfsf sf / 0f ljrlnt eO {/ x ] sf x ' g ; S5g \ cyjf s '/ fx ? lj ;{ g ] ( absent
mindedness ) / aRrfx ?;+ u x : tIf ] k ug {] vfnsf ] cGt { lqmof sf lardf ? dln / x ] sf x ' G5g \ -k ' gdsL , So } 6f , O { n ;/\/ fh / dG6uf ] d ]/ L @)) ^ _ . ha cf3ftnfO { / fd |/ L a ' lemO { G5 , To ; sf sf / 0f pTkGg ePsf efjgfx ? lj : tf /} Plss [ t x ' b } hfG5g \ . To ;} n ] aRrfx ? sf ] ljsf ; sf nflu cfdfx ? nfO { cfˆgf ] cf3ftsf efjgfx ? a '‰ g d2t ug {' cfjZos x ' G5 .