Neighbourhood mothers 2017 Neighborhood mothers: Community change agents | Page 25

Hearing it from professionals helped reinforce what my family used to tell me. I now give others the same advice.” A Neighbourhood Mother in action As a Neighbourhood Mother, Mihraban has helped a lot of women, not just as a friend and sister, but also as a counsellor. She recounts how a young mother once desperately phoned her. The young mother was threatening to end her life over a family matter. Using spiritual references and stating practical reasons that made sense to the woman, Mihraban was able to calm her. That day, the precious life of a woman saved and because of Mihraban’s timely counsel, a set of children did not go motherless. “The same family now has an additional new baby and all is well,” recounts Mihraban with joy. Mihraban suggests “It would be good if each Neighbourhood Mother could introduce herself to the official residents’ association of her apartment block. In the agenda of the yearly residents’ association meeting, time could be allocated for the Neighbourhood Mother to talk about her role and availability to help immigrants.” Mihraban further explains, “If any new or existing immigrant family needs help, for example, with understanding the terms and clauses of the residents’ association, or with other issues, such as adjusting to a new area, the Neighbourhood Mother could be approached for help.” According to Mihraban, this would provide greater visibility for the Neighbourhood Mother, thus reaching more people. Also, if necessary, “the extended, large network of other Neighbourhood Mothers could be tapped for help.” What a brilliant idea, Mihraban! We agree with you and hope to use your suggestion in our new trainings. Thanks for your contributions and we warmly wish you all the best!