“I don’t need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better”- Plutarch. When I was a kid I used to have such a close friend. Nothing was unknown to her - my strength, my weakness. Unlike most others friends she never scoffed at me rather she used to lend a helping hand by showing the right path. The truth may seem exaggerated but she never gave any immoral suggestion or I never lamented after following her advice. You may be curious to know who she is. She is none other than my own Self, my Conscience. Inspite of having five senses we are all blessed with an additional sense called sixth sense, which is our own Inner self. Our Inner Self is acquainted with what we are. We can tell a lie or conceal something even to our parents but never to our own Self. It always suggests the correct path for every problem. Our intuition aware us even if we think of any misdeed. By and large it tries to talk to us. We try to listen to that part which we feel
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suits us and then we prefer to mute the voice of our friend. We rarely find any time to talk with our own self as neither is it enforced nor we feel interesting. As an outcome we don’t act rationally rather we copy what our other friends do. It is not that our Self stop suggesting us but we don’t bother to listen because we are always in a hurry of completing the task, be it unethically. In this rat race we don’t bother if we hurt someone’s sentiment or not helping anyone in their need. As a consequence we don’t dare to confront to our own Self. We are so weak to face the truth and we prefer to live in an illusion. Even we are scared of living with our own self as we are afraid of coming across some warning which we generally ignore under the veil of being busy. In every child dwells the Being of God so a child never commits any offense but the rest part of the journey is assigned to the individual to carry out all alone accompanied only by its Inner Self. Our Inner Self is nothing but the substitution of God’s presence in us.