Truthfully, the instances with my teeth weren’t the earliest
indication that I needed to heal my masculine energy. The summer
at a major R&B radio station while working with the late great
Herb Kent provided the first glimpse that something inside of me
needed healing. Herb was starting to get older and he would have
these episodes when he would tell me how I looked much like and
reminded him of his mother. So he told me that to him, I was his
daughter and he would introduce me as such. One day, he took
me upstairs to speak to an engineer about something he wanted
done. We walked in and Herb introduced me to the engineer as
his daughter. A flood of tears welled up in my eyes and I was
puzzled by my reaction. I had never had any man refer to me as
their daughter. So I hid my tears and kept doing my work.
So a few month and three broken teeth later, I was sitting in
front of my altar asking Holy Spirit what steps to take to heal
my “inner masculine”. When I heard Spirit say “The men in your
life are a reflection of your inner male.” Somehow even though
I knew that, it still felt like an “Aha!” moment. My grandmother
once said, “Men are our mirrors and they reflect a part of who and
what we are. They were marinated in our wombs.” She also used
to say, “Creators create themselves.”
What I’ve found in my own life is that there’s no way that I
can create what I long to create, in life, love, or business, without
healing this fracture between my own inner Masculine & Feminine.