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“ 69 Red Flags – what your mother never told you .”
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every page . Admittedly , red flags in relationships will be interpreted differently based on each individual ’ s dating history and knowledge of the experiences of others , but “ 69 Red Flags – what your mother never told you ” is not just another quick read . The book is wise and witty , clearly describing the relatable red flags that women should know . It is a text book and a handy addition to the purse , as important as a lady ’ s can-never-leave-home-without lipstick and other female tidbits .
What a man says and what a man really means
Rainie examines red flags that may rear its head at different stages of romantic relationships . She highlights the differences between what a man says and what a man really means . It is delivered as a mix of satire and sarcasm , but the insight is highly empowering for women . The author cleverly explores men ’ s actions and non-actions , juxtaposing both aspects to reveal the female interpretation of what he said which is not really what he meant – sorry , guys , but it ’ s usually very different .
and healed . Certain red flags open the mind and invite you to look deeper into your dating situation , and if necessary , regain your power . Having now identified specific relationship nuances that may have previously being elusive , a woman can feel more confident and thereafter be one step closer to creating the life they desire .

“ 69 Red Flags – what your mother never told you .”

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The author does not claim the book to be a critique , but rather an inspection of different dating situations that some women across the globe may encounter . Nonetheless , the book does get a laugh out of male readers . Some men are able to humourously identify those red flags and see through the eyes of the female , the negative impression they may have once made , albeit unintentionally . And for the men with daughters , they may well say , “ I ’ ll be having a chat with every boy who comes around my daughter , because I want to make sure he walks the perfect walk .”
Self-healing and empowerment
After reading the entire book and you reflect on its contents , it will become evident that the author meant to advise , yes , but she also intended the reader to come away empowered