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How to Ensure Each Student Succeeds How to Ensure Each Student Succeeds to 8pm. I loved watching my students’ abilities soar to heights they never imagined pos- sible. Then, I was faced with a challenge at home so ironic; I was ashamed to admit to it. Life Lesson # 103: How to Ensure Each Student Succeeds Author: Anastasia Leiphart Inside of the Box? Outside of the Box? Forget the box: Look at the Student There are not many things in my life that I am cator” in classroom. However, I am admitting ashamed to admit. that home school is the best option for one of my three children. For example, I find it difficult to sugarcoat the truth, especially when the truth is so simple. I Wow, that is difficult to say. do try hard to locate that sugar bowl to throw some sweetness at statements after they have I feel as if I am betraying the very system that left my mouth too soon. Sometimes it works. nurtured and raised me. I need to wave my flag If it doesn’t, “Oh well. Here’s a fork, the truth is a little higher. I’m still one of you! I promise! This meaty.” choice did not come easy, so please hold your hate mail. Several more recent admissions rocked my world, and most likely will for sometime to I have taught in classrooms in The US and around come. the world for over a decade. Differentiating for every child, sometimes for upwards of 80 stu- 1. I have often been called a “Rock Star edu- dents every day, and meeting with parents up 10 SPRING 2017 Not anymore. . 2. I have watched for years as my own chil- dren struggled through learn- ing difficulties. As a mother it has left me dis- traught because I did not un- derstand how I was so success- ful in the classroom, yet my own children struggled to such a great extent. I helped in every way I knew how, and yet the strug- gle continued. Motherly guilt abounds and I found no answers. Some colleagues offered, “It’s because you are a teacher, it’s the teacher-mother curse,” or “I think you are looking too deeply and putting your career on your child. They are fine.” Or the incredibly hurtful, “You work too much, you are never home.” Somehow, those an- swers never helped my own children succeed to the levels of the students in my classroom. This school year that changed. A light bulb went off. One child has a literacy delay. Another is profoundly gifted with ADHD. The third still young and needs a large amount of structure. They were all at one school and all struggling. My husband and I looked at each other and asked, “Why are we plac- ing them in one school, expect- ing the same results?” When mov- ing back to The United States, we located separate schools that held bene- fits for each child, in the same geographic area. Our plan is working out quite well for two of our children. The child gifted with ADHD - She is a social butterfly, of course, but has grown bored and her grades are not as they should reflect. When I suggested the idea of home school to her, she did not, as I ex- pected, protest. She inquired if she would still see her friends. When I said yes, she then asked if she could study dol- SPRING 2017 11