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For some it may mean step- ping into the gym for the first time, trying out a new exercise or training method, cutting out certain foods or incor- porating new ones into their diet. Or it may mean stepping out onto a stage in front of hundreds of people with only inches of fabric covering your body. In any case, pushing past that initial fear and mov- ing beyond the point of being comfortable is where the most growth happens. We learn new things about ourselves, build up our confidence levels and gain new insight into what we are capable of. It raises the bar for our next achievements, and it adds to our list of life experiences and gives us new memories, all the while expanding our horizons and pushing our hopes and dreams past limits that we never thought possible. FIONA’S FOR FINDING THE MAGIC Fake it ‘till you make it. Often true self-confidence in our abilities doesn’t come until after a new experience is over and you have had time to absorb it and reflect on it. Sometimes we need to convince ourselves that we are capable of something and will be successful at it before even giving it a try. This unfounded belief in our- selves may be difficult at first but it will push us to try new things and will greatly improve our chances of succeeding at them. Take baby steps. We don’t have to take leaps and bounds past the areas that we feel comfortable in. Making small moves in the right direction can lead to even greater success than taking one drastic move, plus they allow us the time that some may need in order to ad- just to our newly expanded comfort zone. Try doing something new and different every day, and remember even if your steps are tiny, you're still moving forward! Always look for growth. When we stay inside our comfort zone we limit our ability to learn new things and to have new and exciting adventures. Living with what’s familiar can make us feel safe and secure but it doesn't’ allow us to expose our true potential. Finding small ways to grow each day, like learning a new skill or seeking out new experiences, can have a huge impact on our ability to improve ourselves. Get comfortable with be- ing uncomfortable . We all end up in situations that make us feel uncomfortable. It’s a fact of life, something that will never change, so we might as well get used to it! Shrug off your uncertainties, laugh off your mistakes and move on! It’s important to know that just because we weren’t as successful as we thought we would be, it doesn’t me that we have failed. Enjoy the process. It’s easy to become so focused on our end goal that we don’t stay present and enjoy the moment. As important as our goals may be, it’s the little mile- stones along the way that make up our journey. Not only can fixating on the final goal be overwhelming and intimidating, it doesn’t allow us to find happiness in the small achievements that we accomplish along the way. MUSCLEMEMORYMAG.COM 45