Mummy and Me Magazine August 2014 August 2014 | Page 9

Birth Story of B eatrice Violet was born on Christmas Day 2013, four days after her due date. I stayed active going on long walks, practicing my pregnancy yoga and bouncing on my yoga ball. However the weekend went by with no labour pains. My midwife again gave me a stretch and sweep. By now I was 4cm with bulging waters, but no contractions. I was booked for induction on New Years Eve. On Christmas Day I woke up just after 8am to find my waters had broken in the night. I rang the hospital who said to come in, but that as I wasn’t having contractions I would most likely be sent home. After just over an hour of pushing and an episiotomy, Beatrice Violet Beautif ul Beat arrived at rice Vio let 12.49pm, weighing 8lb 3oz. As requested the midwives delayed cord clamping and Beatrice came up for skin to skin. Once the cord had stopped pulsating Jamie cut the cord. REAL BIRTH STORY Exactly one week before my due date, my community midwife had given me an internal examination at home as I was having irregular mild Braxton Hicks. To my surprise I was already 3cm dilated! My midwife gave me a stretch and sweep, encouraged me to keep moving and was confident I would go into labour over the weekend. Birth & Beyond Beatrice Violet... I am so grateful to the midwives and to Jamie for helping me deliver my daughter naturally and safely. I ended up staying in overnight as Beatrice wouldn’t latch on. The staff were brilliant, staying up with me to help with positioning and latch, and showing me how to express when Beatrice remained fussy. It is partly thanks to their help that we have been successful in breastfeeding. Beatrice is now 8 months old and doing great. We can’t imagine life without her! We arrived at hospital just after 9am. As I had blood in my waters it was decided I should go on a monitor. Thankfully this came back perfectly normal. By now I was experiencing mild tightening roughly every 10-12 minutes, and was told I could go home and come back when these were more regular. However at this point the midwife had to attend to an emergency. When she came back it was just after 10am and my contractions were coming thick and fast roughly every 3-4 minutes. I had an internal examination and was 5cm dilated. Active labour had finally begun! I went into the birth pool which was lovely and relaxing. I chatted with my husband and used the gas and air while my midwife read my birth plan. By 11.45am I was very uncomfortable! I started to seriously doubt my ability to have the natural birth I wanted and began to panic. My wonderful husband and midwife calmed me down, and helped me onto the bed so that I could be checked. I was 10cm dilated and ready to push. The midwife was excellent, encouraging me to keep using the gas and air and letting me know what was happening. My husband Jamie was invaluable, offering me sips of water, rubbing my back, and telling me I was amazing. WWW.MUMMYANDMEMAGAZINE.C <