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S carer, there are a wealth of options, from Mum’s presence nearby, fewer hours/days, to a delayed start (usually a half term) . All options would be thoroughly discussed with the parent to ensure both they and the child are happy. ‘When do I keep them off school?’ ‘What if they’re ill? There are always trained staff who recognise the early signs of childhood ailments and other illnesses, so you will always be contacted. If your child was ill in the night, and is still isn’t 100% it might be a best to keep them at home rather than have them endure a miserable day in school. ‘What if they cry and won’t be consoled?’ ‘Will they be alright without me?’ No child is left crying inconsolably. Most children who cry initially when Mum or Dad leaves settle within minutes, (though parents are traumatised all day!) However, on the very rare occasions they really don’t settle, are very unhappy or never willingly separate from their parent/ 2+2 =4 ‘How can I help give my child the best start to their educational career?’ Talk to them, listen to them, read with them, play with them. It’s really as complex and as simple as that! And remember, while you might shed a tear on the Big Day; for your little one, it’s the start of a huge and exciting adventure! Starting School or Nursery Competition For your chance to win a selection of Gold Star learning books and sticker learning pack from Parragon Books PLUS a ‘Let’s Learn Phonics’ Hot Dots set from Learning Resources simply send in your ‘Starting School or Nursery’ photo to abc def PREPARING FOR SCHOOL OR NURSERY eptember sees many children’s first day at Nursery or School. While some can write their name, or can count to 10; in reality, to free staff to work effectively, they should be able to toilet themselves independently, have name tags on ALL their clothes and Velcro fastenings on those shiny new shoes (no laces please!!). If those issues are addressed, RELAX, you’ve already done a great job, now let the professionals do theirs! Early Years Starting School or Nursery? A Primary School Teacher’s Advice... IN IN W N W WI info@ mummyandme magazine .co.uk | 25