Peer Mentors:
As a former US Marine, I am well aware of the challenges faced while adjusting to civilian life. There are times when we feel frustrated and alone, especially early in our transition. During this time we can feel out-of-place, misunderstood, unappreciated, stressed, lost, and confused. Failure to recognize these emotions and deal with them can impact both your career and life.
Luckily, available resources can make what I have just described to you, avoidable. Connecting with support groups and people and agencies involved with military families during your transition can help you to achieve your goals back home. With this said, the transition takes time and preparation; the more prepared you are for it, the better the result should be. One way to prepare is to lean on a mentor.
By Esteban S,
MSEJ Writers Guild Participant
One step you should take is to find a “mentor,” “battle partner,” or “buddy” as we call it, and don’t waste time waiting to line one up. We have all experienced some sort of mentorship while on active duty, and as a former NCO, I can attest to the fact that it’s helpful to have someone looking out for your well-being. A mentor is a friend or acquaintance who listens and advises, based on your input.
DOD to Offer Peer-to-Peer Support through Military One Source!
On May 20, 2015, the Department of Defense announced that they would begin offering peer-to-peer counseling for military members, transitioning troops, and family members. Learn more here: http://www.defense.gov/news/newsarticle.aspx?id=128857
A mentor can guide you with proper networking advice, assist with resumes, counsel you on first impressions, and give you confidence when needed. A mentor can challenge you to succeed and remind you that you can achieve your dreams, especially when you think you can’t. A mentor can keep you honest and keep you on track by helping you to identify what is required.