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flatmate problems – issues such as paying bills on time, sharing housework equally,
friends who never pay board, but stay anyway, and lifestyle incompatibilities (such
as a non-drug-user flatting with a drug user) may result in hostilities and
arguments.
Moving out of home – worried parents
Think about how your parents may be feeling and talk with them if they are worried about
you. Most parents want their children to be happy and independent, but they might be
concerned about a lot of different things. For example, they may:
worry that you are not ready
be sad because they will miss you
think you shouldn't leave home until you are married or have bought a house
be concerned about the people you have chosen to live with.
Reassure your parents that you will keep in touch and visit regularly. Try to leave on a
positive note.
If your family home does not provide support
Not everyone who leaves home can return home or ask their parents for help in times of
trouble. If you have been thrown out of home or left home to escape abuse or conflict, you
may be too young or unprepared to cope.
If you are living in a foster family, you will have to leave the state care system when you
turn 18, but you may not be ready to make the sudden transition to independence.
If you need support, help is available from a range of community and government
organisations. Assistance includes emergency accommodation and food vouchers. If you
can't call your parents or foster parents, call one of the associations below for information,
advice and assistance.
4.1 The Costs of Moving Out Of Home
Before you move out, create a budget to help you work out your moving costs and your
new living expenses. You need to be realistic when you do a budget so you can plan for any
unexpected and ongoing expenses.
Smart tip
Try to save 10% of your pay into an emergency savings fund, to cover unexpected bills.
You'll be glad you've got those spare dollars if the worst should happen.