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HUM ANAE VITAE ’S 50TH A NNI V E RS A RY HUMANAE V ITA E ’S G OL D EN A NNI V E RSARY A f i f t y - y e a r e n c y c l i c a l t h a t ’s more relevant than ever T Dr. Janet E. Smith he questionnaire distributed by the Pontifical Council on the Family for the Synod on the Family prior to the Synod’s convening in 2014 asked whether Catholics are living by the Church’s teaching on sexuality. I remember filling out the questionnaire, answering time and again: “No, they are not, but they have never been taught these teachings,” or many others for that matter. Since Humanae Vitae was issued in 1968, it can be argued no other teaching has presented Catholics with a bigger obstacle to embracing the faith of the Church wholeheartedly. How sad it is that so few people have ever encountered a robust defense of the Church’s teaching. A brief but nonethe- less forceful explanation can be found in Humanae Vitae itself. The Church’s teaching on sexuality seems puzzling to many people whose un- derstanding has been clouded by the cor- ruption of a culture that practices and glorifies sex without commitment or even deep feeling, a culture in which the most lucrative internet business is pornography. The Church understands sexuality to be an inestimable gift from God, one that allows a man and a woman in a very per- sonal, profound, spiritual, and physical way, to express their deep desire to unite with another and to live out the essential human need to love and be loved. God himself is a lover and in fact is Love itself. It is natural for love to overflow. 2 Indeed, the whole universe is the result of an explosion of love. Spouses are meant to image the love of God; they are meant to be committed, unconditional lovers whose love overflows into new life. New life is, of course, not always possible because of infertility, but the spousal relationship is the kind of relationship designed to fos- ter love and life. God created the whole universe as a support system for human beings, beings he has destined for eter- nal unity with him. He chose to involve spouses in his creative, loving, fruitful en- terprise. St. John Paul II spoke of spouses as being “co-creators” with God; they assist God in bringing forth new human souls. The marital act speaks a “language.” It speaks the language of complete self-giv- ing. It says to another: “I find you over- whelmingly attractive; I have chosen you apart from all others; I commit my whole Sacred Heart Major Seminary | Mosaic | Spring 2018 life to you; I want to enjoy a powerfully pleasurable and bonding experience with you, and I am willing to be a parent with you.” Contraceptive sex cannot speak the language of love; it does not convey the life- time bonding message that “I am willing to bring about another you; I am willing to spend the whole of my life with you.” Even those who don’t want a bond with each other realize having a child with another creates a great bond. Everyone knows the difference between saying to another with one’s sexual acts, “I am willing to be a par- ent with you,” and the message spoken by contracepted sexual intercourse: “I want to experience a great pleasure with you—but not children, no!” The first is affirming in an unparalleled way; the second is all too often exploitative. Again, this is a vision of marriage and sexuality that nearly seems to have been forgotten by the modern age.