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MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE
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“hardness of the heart” (Mt 19:8), Moses allowed men to divorce their wives (cf. Deut
24:1). God also tolerated polygamy during
the time of the patriarchs and the kings,
but Christ explicitly ruled out this practice
(Mt 19:3-9; Mk 10:1-12; Lk 16:18).
Commenting on Matthew 9:5, Pope
Innocent III in 1201 writes that Scripture
“does not say ‘three or more,’ but ‘two’; nor
did it say: ‘he will cling to wives,’ but to [his]
‘wife.’” (Denz.-H, 778).
In the New Testament, “Jesus unequivocally taught the original meaning of the
union of man and woman as the Creator
willed it from the beginning. . . . The matrimonial union is indissoluble: God himself
has determined it: ‘what therefore God has
joined together, let no man put asunder”
(CCC, 1614, Mt 19:6). St. Paul gives vivid testimony to the dignity of marriage by seeing
it as a reflection of the mystery of Christ’s
union with the Church (Eph 5:31–32).
Marriage in Earlier Ages
The New Testament’s affirmation of
the holiness and indissolubility of marriage was continued in the early Church.
Patristic writers such as St. Irenaeus (c.
130-200) and Clement of Alexandria (c.
150-215) were forced to defend the sanctity of marriage against certain Gnostic
and dualist groups that considered sex,
marriage, and procreation as evil. In
this regard, the Magisterium needed to
intervene. The Synod of Toledo of 400
AD anathematized those who found
marriage to be “blameworthy” (Denz.-H,
206). The First Synod of Braga (Portugal), begun in 561, likewise anathematized anyone who “condemns human
marriage and despises the procreation of
children” (Denz.-H, 461).
The early Church also upheld marriage as a sacrament. St. Ignatius of
Antioch (d. ca. 107) and Tertullian (ca.
160–220) taught that Christians must enter into marriage with the approval of the
Church. St. Augustine (354-430) pointed to the three goods (bona) of marriage:
offspring (proles), fidelity (fides), and sacrament (sacramentum).
Some argue that sacramentum in St. Augustine did not mean sacrament—as in one
of the seven Sacraments—but the permanency or indissolubility of the bond. This
meaning, though, harmonizes with the
view of marriage as a sacrament. Moreover, St. Ambrose, the bishop of Milan
who instructed and baptized St. Augustine, referred to Matrimony as a “heavenly
sacrament” (De Abraham, I, vii).
In the Middle Ages, the sacramentality of marriage or matrimony was explicitly defended by the Magisterium. At
the Synod of Verona of 1184, those who
taught otherwise than “the holy Roman
Church” regarding “baptism, confession,
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