Montclair Magazine May 2018 | Page 22

list Family Trips 7 tips for a stress-free vacation WRITTEN BY PAMELA HAYFORD 4. GET A PAPER MAP. Trace your route with a highlighter and mark your stops. Get the kids involved in doing this. The kids will learn some geography, and you’ll have a backup if the GPS goes out. 5. PACK SMART. When children help choose the destination, they’re more likely to be excited and helpful because they’re invested in the process. One way to get what you want is, instead of opening the floor for suggestions, offering the kids a few choices that already have parental approval. Sometimes your destination is a foregone conclusion. Maybe you’re going to visit family. In those cases, enlist your kids’ help in the rest of the plans, including interesting stops on the way. In either case, a special family meeting can help get this trip off on the right foot. 20 MAY 2018 MONTCLAIR MAGAZINE 2. START A SAVINGS ACCOUNT. If you try to anticipate your expenses and have a pot of money ready for your trip, you’ll be less likely to stress out about money and more likely to enjoy the time with your family. 3. START PLANNING. Part of the fun of the trip is plan- ning what you’ll do when you get there. Take the kids to the library and check out books on your destination. Make a list of sites you want to see and activities you want to do. Some will require advance reservations. Discounts are often available when purchasing tickets in advance. 6. HAVE SNACKS ON HAND. Carry snacks that won’t make a mess. Goldfish crackers and Cheerios are great traveling foods for little ones. Whole apples and baby carrots can be great for the entire family. Bring napkins or paper towels. 7. BRING A BLANKET AND STUFFED ANIMALS AND/ OR A PILLOW. Stuffed animals and pillows can help prop little heads up when kids start to nod off. Some families find those U-shaped travel pillows helpful. ■ 1. INCLUDE THE KIDS FROM THE START. Bring too much stuff, and you’ll be miserably cluttered. Don’t bring enough, and you may suffer the wrath of bored children. Limit in-transit entertainment to what can fit into a backpack for each child. Some good mobile entertainment: books, small dolls or cars, notebook and colored pencils (they can be used for games like seeing who can spot the most states on license plates). Just make sure everything is age-appropriate. Save movies and electronic entertainment as a last resort. Download movies and digital books before the trip in case the device’s Internet connection is lost.