Montclair Magazine Back to School 2017 | Page 35

A sk educators about the questions parents pose most often, and a common response is “How can I get my child off the phone so he’ll do his homework?” The popularity of the film Screenagers, which has been viewed and debated at countless public and private schools nationwide, shows the extent of parents’ concerns, and a growing body of academic research backs them up. It’s easy to understand why. For kids, social media is a lifeline to the world beyond their walls, a way of staying connected to the friends and interests that define them. To their parents, screen time can be a distraction that shortens attention spans and makes it harder to focus. But there’s one thing everyone can agree on: Social media is here to stay. And just like every other invention, it can benefit or detract from our lives, depending on how it’s used. According to the counselors and psychologists we spoke to, it’s never too late – or too early – to foster habits that help kids avoid the pitfalls, and even enjoy the benefits, of social media. > MONTCLAIR MAGAZINE BACK TO SCHOOL 2017 33