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destresser Serenity Now, and Later When life goes too fast, slow it down with yoga We don’t look for it, but it finds us. Like deadlines and traffic jams, it’s a fact of mod- ern life. But that doesn’t mean that it has to get the better of us. The practice of yoga carries benefits that extend beyond the end of the session. Montclair’s Joe Gandarillas, who teaches at Yoga Mechanics and is a Certified High Performance Life Coach, explains how it helps. CONNECTING BODY AND MIND Gandarillas teaches Anusara, an align- ment-based yoga, in which practitioners are asked to hold their bodies in specific positions, and to coordinate their breath- ing with the movements and each other. “We might focus on our hips, shoulders or full body, which requires focus,” he says. “I might say, ‘On the inhale, bring your right leg forward, exhale, and touch the ground.’ Poses help you focus your mind and bring you into the present moment.” 30 BACK TO SCHOOL 2017 MONTCLAIR MAGAZINE We may not be aware of it, but our breathing changes when we’re stressed, often becoming quicker and shallower. By focusing on regulating it while forming poses, yoga helps us learn to control it at other times. “Yoga affects the parasympathetic nervous system,” Gandarillas says. “It can slow the heart rate, lower blood pressure, and even relax the gastroin- testinal tract.” GANDARILLAS WHAT HAPPENS TO US SPIRITUALLY “I want to leave clients feeling better than when they came in,” he says. The final five to 10 minutes of his 75-minute classes are devoted to Savasana, when participants lie on their backs with their eyes often closed, and he offers reflections that tie into the theme of the class. “It might be about determination, letting go, or just being,” says Gandarillas. “It’ll be something you can walk away with and take into your life – to create a mantra, journal entry or just to have something to contemplate.” The pose allows students to let go and com- pletely relax. YOGA CREATES A COMMUNITY When a room full of people move and breathe together, it promotes a feeling of shared experience and togetherness. “Studies of people who live to be 100 show that being part of a community is good for you,” says Gandarillas. THE GOOD FEELING CAN LAST As with most skills, the more we prac- tice, the better we’ll be. “If you learn to become more present with yourself, you can learn to be more present with your work, or with another person in your life,” says Gandarillas. You can’t control the guy who gives you a fender-bender, or the babysitter who suddenly cancels, but you can respond with some deep yoga breathing, and calm yourself down. ■ – CINDY SCHWEICH HANDLER OF GRACE STRESS: WHAT HAPPENS TO US PHYSICALLY