Momentum - The Magazine for Virginia Tech Mechanical Engineering Vol. 3 No. 1 Spring 2018 | Page 29

“Sometimes we have to be cheerleaders for those students, male and female, who come in and want to quit,” Vick said. “Toward the end of the semester, we’re doing a lot more cheerleading, pumping them up and telling them they can do it. I keep a box of tissues nearby for the students, because it’s easy to get discouraged.” “People who succeed at engineering, or anything, need to be willing to take risks and be wrong,” Vick said. “You can’t be afraid of failing and you have to build up your self-es- teem enough where you don’t care about being wrong. Those are qualities we see more often in our male students. We try to encour- age our females not to internalize criticism or failure.” For the young women who enter the de- partment today, Vick points to options that didn’t always exist as ways for women to become involved and interact with peers. “One of the best things my daughter did was join CEED (Center for Enhancement of Engi- neering Diversity) programs,” Vick said. She lived in Hypatia (a living-learning community for women in engineering) with other female engineering students. When you feel like you’re not alone, when you’re not the only one struggling, it’s a lot easier. When you can live in a community and make friends in your major who are also female – they are the best support system ever. If you hear them talking badly about themselves, you understand how you might be doing the same thing and think, no, that’s not right.” Through the years, Vick has seen thousands of students pass through Blacksburg and some come back and seek her out. “I’ve heard from former students who come back and they thank us for supporting them,” Vick said. “One female came to me often for encouragement while another female faulty member gave her the tough love she needed. She came back to thank us, because she so often wanted to quit and we kept pushing her. She ended up doing very well at her job and had just been promoted. That’s very satisfying as a professor, an advisor, an engineer, and a woman.” MOMENTUM SPRING 2018 PAGE 29