Momentum - The Magazine for Virginia Tech Mechanical Engineering Vol. 3 No. 1 Spring 2018 | Page 32

For young women who are making their way into mechanical engineering, Kasarda has several pearls of wisdom, including one from a sandwich shop. “I’ve done some research with a member of the VT School of Education about this, and one of the reasons I think women aren’t as well represented in engineering, is because of a social perception,” Kasarda explained. “Women have an extra layer of social navigation to man- age, that depends on personality to some extent, where when they walk into a class and there are only two women, they feel, ‘should I be here? Am I part of this community?’ I’m not saying it doesn’t happen to men by any means, but that ‘do I belong?’ ques- tion is almost always there with women and other students from underrepre- sented groups. “Based on my professional de- velopment work with public school teachers to help them understand and incorporate engineering in their classrooms, I learned that there is also a perception that you need to be a math superstar in school to even consider engineering, and that’s not really true. You absolutely need to be able to do the math, but if you got a B in high school calculus, you can apply for an engineering program. You’ll have MOMENTUM SPRING 2018 to work, because it’s challenging and it should be challenging, but it’s doable. “Women are also too hard on themselves and tend to blame themselves when things don’t go well. Things are different for women and that’s not going to change overnight. No matter how hard you work and how much you accomplish, there will always be people problems to deal with that seem personal. Be honest with yourself, but don’t always just blame yourself. If someone is a jerk, they’re a jerk, that’s not your problem. Just deal with it as best you can and absolutely look for options for working with better people – it just may take a while to change your circumstances. “Finally, I’d say find an advisor/mentor and don’t just choose someone randomly,” Kasarda said. “You want a personality match with them not just an interest in the same topic or engineering discipline. If you are going to do research or go to gradu- ate school, talk to other students and find out an advisor’s style, and how they do things. I saw a sign once in a sandwich shop that said, ‘it’s not how your date treats you, it’s how they treat the wait staff’ and this holds true in professional relationships also. This is critical because at the end of the day, how people treat those who may not be at their same station in life, that shows who that person really is.” PAGE 32