Modern Athlete Magazine Issue 121, August 2019 | Page 14

IN THE LEAD empathy and understanding of just what the patients are going through – and the fact that she speaks from experience makes it that much easier for patients to be able to relate. “I know I struggled initially with the news and how to deal with everything. The scary thing is there is so little, and yet so much information out there. The problem is that most of it is not necessarily accurate, but people soak it up, and that adds to the trauma.” Nicole sharing her story to help others deal with cancer Nicole will therefore outline what happens when you undergo chemotherapy, or worse, radiation. “It is hectic, and just to be able to tell people what will happen to their body, what they need to take and what sort of side-effects the process has on the body, is just so important. They need to be prepared.” To that end Nicole has done various online courses through the Cancer Recovery Institute in America, which allows her to understand even better what is happening to the body, but more importantly, also to provide some sort of counselling. “I’ve done a whole course on exercise and how that actually helps with recovery, and even dealing with things during the actual treatment.” Nicole had to undergo a double mastectomy, and the trauma to both her body and her mind caused her to re-evaluate many aspects of her life. “It was traumatic, and not something you are ever prepared for. There is no one who talks you through the process of what is happening to your body, because oncologists simply do not have the time to explain everything. It is frightening, because you are lost.” Fortunately, Nicole was also treated by Professor Carol-Ann Benn, who was very involved in her procedure and who did take the time to explain things to Nicole. Still, this experience saw Nicole decide to become part of the solution, and immediately after recovery she decided to become what is called a Patient Navigator. Basically, we try and explain to the patients before and after treatment what will happen, just to put their mind at ease, because it is scary.” NEW BEGINNINGS Nicole now often tells her story, of how she survived and overcame cancer, and how cancer does not distinguish between your health, your creed or your gender. “Cancer doesn’t discriminate. I was healthy – no longer competing, but still fit. I mean, I run 8km six times a week, but that meant nothing. Cancer will attack you, no matter who you are.” Invariably, when hit by trauma, most people suffer from some sort of depression, but Nicole used her love for running to make sure she did not become depressed. “Look, I did struggle, but having competed at the top flight all those years, a very strict discipline was instilled in me, and that was to be active. And I love it, because it just makes me feel good. So I went onto the elliptigo machine as soon as possible after my op, and started running again as soon as possible. Exercise does help in healing, and it definitely helped me. So I use my story to 14 encourage those who are about to undergo treatment, or who are in post-treatment recovery, to get out there and exercise. Even if you just go for a walk, just do something, because it will help.” Nicole is very involved at the Helen Joseph Hospital in Auckland Park. “I was very, very fortunate. I was admitted to Milpark Hospital and had the best facilities and resources, but what about those who do not have access to those resources? Helen Joseph is a public hospital and does not have access to all the resources that a private hospital would have. And the people are scared. In a way, my experience gave me a new purpose. And by volunteering as a Patient Navigator, I am hoping I can make the process a bit easier for others.” AMBASSADORIAL ROLE Today, Nicole is involved in speaking engagements where she tells her story and helps others to deal with the trauma of cancer, whether they are directly or indirectly affected. She has also become an ambassador for the group Women of Stature, which specialises in providing high quality transformational programmes. As the Facebook page says, “Women of Stature provides a platform where women learn the art of ‘Living on Purpose,’ and in so doing, reach their full potential.” Thus Women of Stature strives to be a source of opportunities and information to empower women through mentoring and skills development programmes, workshops, seminars and social events, to help women connect and share attitude, knowledge and skills. And Nicole certainly hits all those points. Not only is she actively involved in health and wellness activities through her coaching services, but by sharing her journey and spending time with patients at Helen Joseph Hospital, she is making a difference in many people’s lives. Her easy and open way of engaging with people and her own experience, means she is able to show ISSUE 121 AUGUST 2019 / www.modernathlete.co.za MAKING A ‘COMEBACK’ Nicole’s efforts and vocal campaign, in particular with the Breast Health Foundation, have seen her be invited to the Sanlam Cape Town Marathon in September, where she will be presenting her journey as a guest speaker at the event’s annual High Tea. This year the Breast Health Foundation is one of the charities that will be a beneficiary of the Marathon, and that makes Nicole want to not only present at, but also run the event. “I’ll be running the 10km, my first race in years,” she chuckles Nicole is still fit and will no doubt give a good account of herself come race day, but she says it is the Foundation, and breast cancer awareness, that will be in the spotlight. Still, her example will continue to inspire. She is a fighter who is making a big difference in the lives of many women struggling with their own battles with Cancer. breasts and my first reaction was to ignore it, but then I went in to have it investigated. I got the call to come to the clinic immediately and I went numb.” Nicole also emphasises to her cancer patients that even post the operation or treatment received, the patient has to monitor their health on an ongoing basis. “I’m on medication called tamoxifen, an endocrine medication, for 10 years. I’ve had minimal side-effects, because of my fitness and exercise, but you still need to monitor things every six months – and explaining all that goes a long way in alleviating the anxiety of the patients.”