Modern Athlete Magazine Issue 117, April 2019 | Page 23

ROAD RUNNING MY STORY My Dad is My Hero! Lylanie Berg tells us the inspirational story of her dad, Chris Mienie’s late start in running and brave, ongoing attempt to conquer the Comrades Up Run. S ince I can remember, my dad and I woke up early to watch Comrades each year. It was also a dream of mine to run the Ultimate Human Race, and while my dad always encouraged me, he had never planned to run it himself. In 2011, I attempted my first Comrades, and I got so emotional every time I crossed over one of the timing mats, because I knew my dad would get an SMS. Crossing that finish line, the relief of finishing was amazing, but I knew my dad was still stressing in front of the TV as he waited for the official result to come in! That finish put new life into my dad, and following our heroic finish, he started training properly, just going from strength to strength. I had never thought my dad would be a runner, because he had a knee injury from rugby in his younger days, and was overweight, but it seems running was motivating him like nothing else had. He was running every opportunity he got, and said he was feeling really inspired for what seemed the first time in his life. He also said he wanted to take his running to the next level. The following year, when I took on my first Two Oceans Ultra, my dad was there to support me. It was the year the heavens opened, and by the time I got to him in Hout Bay, he was soaking wet and freezing, but so excited by what he had seen. That was the day his life changed, and his running journey started. So in 2016, at the age of 60, Dad completed his first Comrades Marathon, on the Down Run from Pietermaritzburg to Durban. I have never been so proud of him, because in just three years he had accomplished something many runners only dream of doing. But my dad is not one to do things in half measures, and so in 2017, he did what every Comrades finisher dreams of doing, once they have forgotten the pain of what they put themselves through… he attempted his Back-to-Back Comrades. Pushing the Limits In 2013, after five years of walking and weighing in at 126 kilograms, my dad attempted his first half marathon at the Two Oceans. With 7km to go, however, his knees were in serious pain, and the downhill of the Green Mile on Rhodes Drive was killing him. He wanted to give up, but we were so close to the finish, and with my hand on his back we pushed on. I wasn’t sure if I would make through the last 2km. It was uphill, and pushing him took everything I had – he would literally come to a stop if I took my hand off his back. But when we hit the UCT sports grounds, the crowd was screaming, “Push him, push him!” I had been under the impression that we had already missed the cut-off, but there was still time, so we pushed. When we crossed that finish line, it was one of the most memorable moments of my life, my Dad and I finishing his first 21km together! Comrades Debut Coming Back! But there was unfinished business: My Dad still wanted his Up Run medal! After taking a month off, he was back on the road, and Comrades was back on the radar. His life was eat, sleep, run, and repeat. However, in November last year, he had to have an arthroscopy done on his left knee, with a partial debridement meniscectomy, following which he was told he would not be able to run for three months. He was devastated, because this once again seemed to take away his dream of finishing the Up Run, but he still believes he can do it… it just might not be this year. Since his enforced rest and recovery, Dad has completed three half marathons and is back to running at every opportunity! He is still determined to beat the Up Run, and I know that he is going to give it his best shot! He is my hero, and I know he is capable of doing anything he puts his mind to, so Up Run, we’re coming for you! Being in the best shape of his life and running his best ever times, I was sure he would do it, but things don’t always go to plan. With 25km to go, he cramped so badly and simply couldn’t go on. While I was heartbroken for him, the disappointment he felt was so big that I was worried he would never run again. So, right there and then, I promised him we would run Comrades together in 2018. The following year I kept my promise, and my Dad, myself and my husband all ran together from Pietermaritzburg to Durban. It was such a special day, and such a moment to run Comrades with my dad after all those years of watching the race together. It really brought our story full circle. 23