Modern Athlete Magazine Issue 117, April 2019 | Page 12

ROAD RUNNING the Cape Town one. They are both filled with positive, helpful and fun people, who are eager to live a healthy active lifestyle. The key difference between the two is the scenery... the Swiss Alps on the one side, and Table mountain on the other.” “Most of my friends and acquaintances are runners, and I believe in the saying that goes, ‘birds of a feather, flock together,’ so with me being active in running and aspiring to have a constant positive outlook on life, the crowd that I attract seems to have the same philosophy. As a close friend recently taught me, our vibe attracts our tribe!” Balancing Act She started her running journey on the road, as many runners do, but she has in recent years found a love for trail running, and now tries to find a healthy balance between the two. However, the life of a working single mom, with two teenagers, means it can become difficult to find the time needed for training purposes. “It does get tough to juggle being a single parent and having a full-time job, so I try to run during my lunch times at work, in order to supplement the time I need to spend on my legs. You find a way to make it work. I am grateful for my life and my health. I have many blessings, so I stay positive and don’t let the negative affect me much.” That said, there have been times where even an optimist can become a cynic, especially when there is running involved. “The closest I have ever come to quitting while running, was when I did a race in the Swiss winter. It was very cold, with constant rain, and I wasn’t mentally prepared for the bad weather. I seriously considered dropping out, but I dug deep, persevered and pushed on to the finish. That is where you build character, and a stronger mental state. It is better for your running and for your life. As they say, when life gives you lemons, you make lemonade, and I am a firm believer in doing just that.” 12 “Great people like Nelson Mandela, Zola Budd and Caster Semenya, to name just a few, inspire and motivate me for different reasons. They faced many different hostilities and controversies, but with their iron will and perseverance, they have become icons and earned their titles of legends. I would like my own story to one day inspire and motivate young girls from the Cape Flats to chase their dreams, no matter how impossible it seems. As Madiba said, ‘It is only impossible until it is done.’ I remember at high school my nickname was Zola Budd, even though I didn’t even run barefoot. Maybe it was because they could see the same kind of determination to succeed in my face that they saw in Zola’s face.” Words of Wisdom Judith lives by a few key sayings that she often dishes out to her kids. “I try to keep them focused on the positives by telling them to ‘aspire to inspire,’ that ‘nothing comes for free,’ to ‘ask and thou shall receive,’ and last but not least, ‘don’t worry, be happy!’ They don’t always listen, but I know that it will sink in, and that it will help them along in their lives when I am not there to guide them on their journey.” “The best advice that I got in running, and which I have also used for many years in everyday life, is to always run your own race. Don’t get caught up in looking around what others are doing, and forget about what you need to do. This is a big lesson to learn as a young person, especially a young girl. You must learn to love and respect yourself first, and then it will lead to you being loved and respected wherever you go. Be your authentic self at all times, know what it is that you want out of your life, and not what society dictates to you. Don’t let anyone ever tell you that you can’t do this, or you can’t achieve that. Believe in yourself and don’t let your destiny be determined by where you come from, or by the opinions of others.” ISSUE 117 APRIL 2019 / www.modernathlete.co.za