Mizrachi SA Jewish Observer - Pesach 2016 | Page 10

AHEAD OF THE CURVE Soloveitchik paints it, we lay on our beds, and moaned, “I’ve already removed my cloak, I can’t be bothered to get up and don it again; I’ve washed my feet, how can I sully them?” (cf. Song of Songs 5:3). And the call at that stage came from pious Rabbis – Rabbis Kalischer, Mohilever and Alkalai. law and a strengthening of the home and connection to Hashem! It has a proven track record world-wide. Secondly, as Chief Rabbi Mirvis of the UK put it recently, on his launch of the Ma’ayan Women’s Leadership programme, “There are large numbers of women in our communities who, for a variety of reasons, feel more comfortable asking a woman for advice or guidance on personal matters and related aspects of Jewish law. We have a responsibility to provide for them and this programme will help us a great deal in that regard.” He writes further and so eloquently, “The ability to harness the shining light of our mitzvot so that they do not become a blinding glare, is a very special gift which many with wisdom and experience have, enabling them to explain, guide and advise on matters of Torah observance. I have been privileged to meet women in the UK and abroad who are blessed with this gift and who are a great source of inspiration to others. Our communities should have the opportunity to harness the talent of such women, appointed in a formal capacity, to ‘enlighten the eyes’ of those around them.” Again we missed the wave and then others took up the banner of a Jewish State. And when Theodor Herzl raised the flag, most Torah Jews turned their backs – how could he be leading the charge? An assimilated Jew? No thank you, said we. And now, we complain that the State of Israel is a secular state, which has before it so many challenges to its Jewish soul! What foolishness. Torah observant Jews had all the opportunity in the world to make the State holy and sanctified, but we chose instead to sanctify Pinsk, Minsk and Vilna. Again, we were behind the curve and were adamant that a Herzl figure could never be the one to teach us. Although it has been said that some of our opponents never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity, it seems that we Jews have often not been much better. Curve after curve, wave after wave, we miss. And if we climb aboard, it’s at the end and too little too late. Pesach is a time for teaching and learning. It is a time when we encounter the inter-generational continuity of the Jewish people. The Seder is the moment when the family gathers round and all are invited to share and teach. We even have the wicked son there – perhaps he can learn something? Perhaps he can teach us? Pesach is a time when we can challenge the paradigms of the teachers we have and those we have rejected in the past. Against this background, with the challenges that we as the Jewish people face today, a different form of teacher has emerged slowly over the past one hundred years. As happened with examples above, some of us cannot accept this sort, thinking that they do not fit the mould, thinking that they are not frum enough, most especially, not male enough. The era of the woman Torah teacher is upon us, and we are missing the wave. How many more opportunities does the Torah world want to lose? How many more pure, holy prospects will we spurn, instead delivering them into the hands of others who will utilise them for the opposite ends? 50% or more of the Jewish world is fem ale, why in heaven and earth would we not invest the same time and effort in generating Torah teachers and leaders for that 50% and from that 50%? Let me cite two examples: Firstly, the project of the Yo’atzot Halacha (women trained to offer guidance to other women in matters of family purity) is a case in point. The statistics are blindingly clear – when a community has a woman in such a position, more women ask halachic queries because they feel more comfortable. It is a net gain to Halachic observance and fidelity to Jewish 10 “I wonder, will we miss this curve? Will we recoil from the messenger?” This is the sort of thinking and programming we need, and much more, and sooner rather than later. We have been blessed with G-d fearing, punctiliously observant, frummer than frum women Torah teachers. We should be way ahead of the curve, and way ahead of the extremists! We should have an army of learned, trained, committed women Torah teachers throughout our communities, ensuring that our women receive the same level of investment as our men. Instead, we seem content to let things trundle along as they always have, and to relinquish the narrative to those whose agenda is fixated on what designation a woman teacher should have! We, mainstream Torah Jews, have created the vacuum which is being filled with the noise of extremists on either side of the equation. Yes, there will always be those who would focus narrowly and anachronistically on achieving exact, complete, purist feminist parity. On the other hand, I have no doubt that even this earnest and temperate call for teachers will be twisted by some scaremongers on the opposite side, seeking to display rabid, anti-Halachic, suffragette monsters in every challenge to “the way we’ve always done things.” But concerns over extremists on either side do not justify our foregoing the opportunity to nurture, build and develop a Torah-faithful leadership who will help us conquer our current Egypts. This Pesach, though, as we all sit around the table, learning and teaching, I suggest that it is our own future and that of our children, both sons and daughters, which lies in the balance. I wonder, will we miss this curve? Will we recoil from the messenger? Again? I hope not. ■ 11