Miss VIP February, 2014 | Page 29

UNEPECTED TURN It was Valentine’s Day and while we didn’t particularly cared about it (I acted like I didn’t care and he knew it). Carlos always did something nice for me. I was disappointed however to find out that Carlos had to work, one of his coworkers had called in sick so Carlos offered to go. He had a kind heart like that. Carlos should have been home at six, so I had cooked his favorite dinner and put on the things he favorited to see on me. It was nearing seven when I started to worry. At eight I was freaking out. At nine I was ready to pass out was it not for my best friend who came to see me after my freak out at eight. THE PHONE CALL At 12 minutes till ten, the phone rang. I couldn’t pick up, I knew this wasn’t going to be Carlos saying he got stuck in traffic. I knew and I hated that I did, I hate that I couldn’t believe it was him because I needed that so hard. I needed something to hold onto, even if it was fake. I wish I could have been strong enough to answer the phone, to hear for myself that Carlos had died in a car accident, that he died instantly and that he didn’t feel any pain. But I wasn’t so strong, so I heard it from Cristina. I wish I could have been strong enough to finish my speech for him at his funeral, but I wasn’t so my mother finished it for me. I wish I could have been strong enough to pick a text for his gravestone, but I wasn’t so his best friend picked it. I wish I was strong enough to visit his grave, and cover it in flowers, but I’m not so our friends do it for me. I wish I could be stronger, for me, for him. I try. I go to a support meeting every week, I am going to try to visit his grave next Valentine’s Day. ■