Millburn-Short Hills Magazine Back to School 2020 | Page 13

COURTESY OF JORDANA HORN better place than the way they found it. We talked to Horn, who shared how she manages her work, home and public life. WHATWAS IT LIKE ORGANIZING THETOWN-WIDE SUMMER READ,AND WHATWAS YOUR GOAL IN SETTING IT UP? With the proliferation of Black Lives Matter marches and protests, I wanted to make sure that our community had those kinds of discussions. And I’m very grateful that there’s a real interest in learning more about Black history and about racism in the United States. Especially now that so many summer programs and plans were changed because of COVID-19, it seemed like a good opportunity to try and start something, and to additionally help a local business, The Book House, our local bookstore in Millburn. So, working with Nadege, we put forward this idea. And the response was huge. I was very pleasantly surprised by that. I’m sort of aperson who, if you want to see something done, put your pedal to the metal and do it yourself. So Ijust got intouch with Nadege, and it just took off from there. WITH THE RECENT EVENTS SURROUNDING THE BLM MOVEMENT,HOW DO YOU THINK THIS TOWN-WIDE SUMMER READ CONTRIBUTES TO THE FIGHT FOR SOCIAL JUSTICE? Iwant to start with the caveat that I think it is not enough. But I think that one of the necessary steps to becoming anti-racist is to make yourself more aware of the deeply entrenched history of racism in this country. I’ve attended both public and private schools, and Ihave to say that my education was woefully lacking in GOOD TURNOUT Millburn area readers gathered at their laptops for the Townwide Summer Read 2020 organized by Jordana Horn, in conjunction with The Book House. these subjects. And I hope that we can see that the tide is starting to turn. WHATROLEDOYOU THINKTHIS FIGHT FOR SOCIAL JUSTICE PLAYS BOTH IN THE PAST AND IN THE PRESENT OF YOUR COMMUNITY? Ithink that we live in avery interesting place. Welive inasuburb where it’s aspirational to live here. We’re extremely fortunate. Most of us are here because of the wonderful schools that are here, and I think that education is a priority. And I think that now, as opposed to when I grew up... It’s a much more diverse place than it was when Igrew up, and I think it’s much better for it. So Ithink that it’s natural, that in light of having a dramatically less homogeneous community, that people would want to have more examination and more introspection about things that were previously deemed as “the norm.” WHAT HAS RUNNING THE“CALL YOUR MOTHER”PODCAST BEEN LIKE,AND WHAT DOYOU HOPE YOUR LISTENERS GET OUT OF IT? It’s been alot of fun. We’ve talked about so many different things, and I think the ability to connect with people and to share personal experiences through stories has been very powerful. Some of the things we’ve talked about: We interviewed a mom who became addicted to opioids after giving birth. Wetalked to atransgender dad who talks about the experience of giving birth. We’ve talked to celebrities, comedians, Jill Cardman and Judy Gold. We talked about anti-Semitism. We talked about the spread of measles and the viral contagion of ideas. Ihope that it exercises listeners’ muscles of empathy. It’s very easy to form an opinion in the abstract, but then you talk to somebody and you hear their story, and you hear the raw emotion in their voice. I think that my ideal would be that... Obviously I want to entertain with the podcast, along with my co-host, Shannon. But we’re also really trying to challenge. I hope that you come away thinking about things differently than when you come in. WITH EVERYTHING YOU’RE HANDLING RIGHT NOW, HOW DO YOUSEEM TO JUGGLE IT ALL? Ithink juggling implies that all balls are up in the air all the time, and that is definitely not the case. A hundred percent, there are balls on the floor. There’s a psychological hurdle of recognizing that that’s okay, that not everything is going to be perfect, and that all you can beisthe best version of yourself that you can be. I think that all of those things each appeal to adifferent part of my personality, and I hope that when my kids grow up, they remember that their home was a loud and messy and fun one. Where they had amom who really cared a lot not only about them, but about the world outside of them. And you can argue that maybe it’s a little selfish, because I want that world outside to be better for them. That’s at the root of motivation of everything that Ido. ■ MILLBURN &SHORT HILLS MAGAZINE BACK TOSCHOOL 2020 11