Mid Hudson Times Dec. 19 2018 | Page 3

3 Mid Hudson Times, Wednesday, December 19, 2018 Discussion groups ponder ways to end hate and intolerance By KATELYN CORDERO [email protected] Members of the Newburgh Community gathered Sunday looking to have open- ended discussions about hate and discrimination. The room was filled with 65 people from different parts of the City and Town of Newburgh and New Windsor discussing ways they experienced hate and strategies to move forward. One thing was clear, hate knows no boundaries, each person sitting around the room has experienced hate in some shape or form, regardless of their race, color and ethnicity. The question Caryn Sobel, event organizer, looks to tackle with these discussions is how to put an end to hate. “My goal is to get people from different backgrounds to come together as a community and talk about standing up to hate and I think we did that,” said Sobel. “After the mass shooting in Pittsburgh, Angela Paul’Gaito a mediator for her table discussed bullying. I thought that was the last straw in my head for standing on the sidelines. It hit home that nobody is safe. If people are speaking hatefully there is something we can do, we can find a way to speak compassionately, we can find a way for them to relate to us as a human again.” Animated discussions filled the social hall of Newburgh’s Kol Yisrael, with people sharing stories and brainstorming solutions to share with the room. Some solutions included diffusing hate with humor or with information. A big suggestion was understanding why a person is being discriminatory or hateful in order to understand how to diffuse the situation. “It’s important that people get involved and discuss,” said Councilwoman Ramona Monteverde. “Change is important and we need to get out and do what we can and take a stand and say we are not going to tolerate this. Everybody is our neighbor, we are here to help each other and not turn our back on one another.” Sobel is looking to continue the discussion and momentum from Sunday evening with monthly meetings. She hopes this can become a national discussion to diffuse hate and promote inclusion on a broader level outside of Newburgh. You can get more information about the organization by visiting the Facebook page or instagram: @nohateherenbg. Bright lights shine on Broadway The official lighting of the Broadway Christmas Tree last Thursday helps to wind down another busy year in Newburgh Councilman Anthony Grice, Regina Angelo and, of course, Santa were on hand for the lighting. Photos by Brian Wolfe L - r: Orange County Legislator Kevindaryan Lujan, Bryan Luna, Rebekah Grohl, Eric Hernandez and Steven Majano. This year’s tree is dedicated to the late former Mayor Judy Kennedy and former Assemblyman Frank Skartados. The Christmas tree, lit on Dec. 13, with hot chocolate supplied by the Salvation Army, 10 boxes of cookies supplied by Regina, and presents given out.