MetroVan Independent News July 2015 | Page 22

22 MetroVanIndependent.com July 2015 lifestyle The Ride to Conquer Cancer “Ideation without execution is simply delusion” - Robin Sharma By Christine Adela White The Ride to Conquer Cancer is a 240 KM charity bike ride from Vancouver to Seattle, benefiting the BC Cancer Foundation. Many of us have seen the televised ads and know somewhat of what the journey consists of (cyclists fundraising for cancer research), but the actual experience of being in The Ride and crossing the finish line is like no other feeling, no other experience that an ad can convey. You hear your fellow cyclists beside Christine Adela White. You remember why you are cycling, and in memory of whom. Your fellow cyclists are also grieving; they have lost a parent, a sibling, a spouse, a child. you – the swishing of wheels spinning in unison, creating a polyphonic song of determination and perseverance, almost meditative. You remember why you are cycling, and in memory of whom. Your fellow cyclists are also grieving; they have lost a parent, a sibling, a spouse, a child. Your fellow cyclists are also cancer survivors, marked by yellow flags on their bike, and you cannot help but feel humbled and proud to be in their presence. Just when you feel another 25KM to the next pit-stop is unbearable, you see that yellow flag and you trek on knowing their struggle and their triumph of beating the disease. All these cyclists have been touched by cancer in some form or another, and here they are, with you, fighting alongside for the sake of others in hopes of seeing a cancer-free world. This is a silent camaraderie. This is a crusade to end cancer: The Ride to Conquer Cancer. The loss of a loved one is always difficult: you question 'why' and wonder 'if.' Time prepares us for chronological events: with the loss of a spouse, you become a widow; with the loss of parents at young age, you are an orphan. Christine Adela White cycles in memory of her sister Laura who passed away at age 15 in 2002. But what do you call a mother or father who loses a child? There is no word in our vocabulary. The death of a child is out of chronological order, so you could imagine how confusing and how difficult it was for my mother and father when my little sister died. I had to be strong for them, being the eldest daughter. There was no choice. August 29th-30th will mark my fifth year cycling down to Seattle. I cycle in memory of my sister Laura who was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia at age 15 in 2002 and passed three weeks shortly after diagnosis. I cycle for innovative treatment and research. Laura was in remission and had beat the disease, but the toxicity of the treatment was too much for her to bear. Her heart failed. Today, ca nce r re sea rche r s a re exploring lower dose toxicity in childcancer treatment. Despite Laura beating the odds at a 11 percent “c W&R&FR