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to open it and when he realized he cannot, he stopped and I said “ calm down!” and he walked away. I open the door gently and went on the verandah, I realize Sim and Neil is not there so I ran up to Han’s house thinking that Sim would be there, I saw her telling Han what was happening and Han was upset with me and went down to our house, we saw Neil on our verandah, so Han said to Neil “ when I come back you better leave!” Neil got up and left immediately when he saw Han going next door (must be for his gun). Months before that, I did tell Neil that my cousin Han was a bad man,(in Jamaica it means a gun-man). So Neil probably remembered what I said and ran. From that day Neil & I broke up, thanks to my cousin Han for helping me to leave Neil cause I wanted to do that a long time ago but Neil didn’t want to leave me. I saw Neil years after that, a month before I married to Phil and again after Phil & I got divorced, he said “ hi” to me and be telling me that he is now a security for a big name security company, while being a driver of their company’s vehicle. It was 1 & ½ year after me and Phil was married, even after giving birth to his first child, our son Nicholas, Phil started to talk to me bad, treated me 19