May-June Issue #40 4Guys | Page 30

SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS

A GAY GUY ’ S GUIDE TO LOVE & SEX

I once heard that sex is a reflection of the kind of love you share with your man — sloppy , intimate , or cautious , it all stems from that vessel . But in modern times sex seems to have nothing to do with love . On the contrary , it supports an idea that love can exist separately .
I have no issue with casual sex or FWBs or drunk
30 hookups . Sometimes you need someone to unleash your urges on with no worry of attachment , but this type of etiquette needs to stay where it belongs : to the guys you know aren ’ t worth it . The trouble with gay dating today is that we ’ ve grown accustomed to the structure of sex without love . Most guys are able to wean themselves out of it but sadly many forget how .