I ’ m a bottom , so I carry my silicone lube and a douche in an Adidas bag to bathhouses , sex clubs , raves , circuit parties , and even run-of-the-mill bars where I think I might get lucky . The simple fact is that even after a thorough cleaning , you can never completely predict or control the body . What ’ s the point of paying to get into a sexual environment if you ’ ll just have to go home in the worst-case scenario ? Bringing a douche means that worst case scenario is remedied by a trip to the bathroom .